What would YOU pick & why?

[sagittariusgirl89]

Ok, so my bf gave me the choice, to see him tomorrow night or wait until this weekend to see him.

If he came tomorrow night, he would be here around 1030ish. The only thing is that I will be on my period and his dad MIGHT have to use his car, so if his dad calls him then he has to go home.

If he comes this weekend, I have to wait until friday afternoon to find out when I'll see him. So, he might be here saturday night, or sunday night, or monday night. We just really don't know because he will get his work schedule friday afternoon.

I just really wanna see him tomorrow, but he is all like if I come tomorrow night then I won't be back until 2 wks and we wont have sex because ur on ur period.

I don't really think i can wait until this weekend. When I know i could see him tomorrow...

[Gurl]

Would you be likely to have more time with him over the weekend? If so, I'd say wait. Its only a very few days

[sagittariusgirl89]

No, it'd be the same amount of time.

[aggie]

Well, if your period ends by the weekend - i'd say wait.

Really, it looks to me, you already know what you should choose... look at your post! you mentioned 3 disadvantages of him coming tomorrow. and the only one of him coming over the weekend is that you have to wait 3 or 4 days. And i think these are a little more acceptable than two weeks after... or are they not ?

And if he's got the night off work tomorrow... you could watch a movie together over the phone/skype or something ?

[sagittariusgirl89]

Ugh....im so confused. Bcuz i just wanna see him!!!!

[aggie]

Oh, trust me, i know the feeling!
to the point i was once willing to get flights immediately to go to aus just for 5 days over waiting 2 months and spending 3 months with him. (i know, must sound scary to you, if you guys see each other much more often)...
luckily, he's the less emotional one and he told me we made it so far, so we could wait another 60days.

so yeh, you've waited so long, you can make it till the weekend! and then stay up all night... ^^
[please, i'm sure he wants some of the sexy time with you too! ]

[sagittariusgirl89]

LOL, its just so frustrating. If I know there is a possibility for him to come tomorrow it will drive me CRAZY if he doesnt come.

[sagittariusgirl89]

I just called him, and I told him that I will wait until Friday to find out when I'll see him.

Now, I'm scared something will cause me to get stressed. Like, I gotta go all day today and tomorrow. It just gets me stressed feeling and overwhelmed.

Ugh!

[MadMolly]

I would defnitely wait a few days. You can do it! It's only a few days.

[aggie]

aw, you're a big girl! you'll be fine.
Just think that you're gonna see him soon. (i don't know if it helps, but i could DIE if i had a chance to see T. on the weekend!!)
Don't put yourself in a stressful situation, be nice to him and everyone else, have a relaxing bath, prepare for the meeting and enjoy yourself.
If anything is about to bring you down/annoy you.... we're here for you!

[Taija]

I would wait as well - it's only a few days! If I can go 9 months, I know you can manage. :P

But if you really wanted to see him sooner, nothing is stopping you from having sex on your period. It might feel like a gross idea, but as long as you have a towel under you, it's all fine and it can actually help with the cramps. It's another thing if you feel cranky and not in the mood for it, though - I'm one of the lucky people who have mostly painless periods, so I guess I'm biased.

[sagittariusgirl89]

Thank you everyone. All of you are wonderful :-)

[Jennifer&Georgex3]

Why would you even complain about being 120 miles away from your SO to begin with? That's a drive for my dad to go to work and back. You're worried about having sex on your period, how about you put more time in worrying about the things you aren't cherishing in your "LDR", if you want to call it that.
Like Taija said, 9 months. Myself? 3.


I don't mean to sound controversial, especially after an issue has been resolved or a post has been finished, but I would suggest, to anyone, to think before they post certain subjects.

[Mio]

I would pick the weekend

[MadMolly]

I sort of am on the fence about the distance. Like it's all relative really - a 2 hr drive for me would definitely be LD if we didn't have transport except expensive coaches. That would be a once-a-month trip or less for me. However if you have transport and can see eachother once a week is it really a LDR? I'm not sure. Mostly coz if I'm living in the same city with my BF I expect to see him only on the weekends anyway, unless I bump into him around uni :P