The age old debate here. Can a straight girl and guy be "just friends"?
I have a (guy) friend who I met recently and we hang out a lot. Mostly we just meet up at bars and have a few drinks. Yesterday, he came to my apartment after work and we had a few drinks (notice a trend? hehe) He knows I have a SO, he even knows that he's planning on moving in with me. He's asked to meet him when he gets here. But sometimes I feel strange hanging out alone with this guy. Maybe in the bars it was okay, but I do feel like a line might have been crossed when he came to my apartment. He never tried to pull anything on me, if he did I would make sure that would be the end. We really have a lot in common and it's hard for me to find people like him to talk to (people who like to travel... for long periods of time... gap year and what not )
So is it possible for us to be "just friends"? I feel like I have had strictly "just friends" guy friends before. I loved it because I felt like I could say anything to them. Any opinions?
I have a (guy) friend who I met recently and we hang out a lot. Mostly we just meet up at bars and have a few drinks. Yesterday, he came to my apartment after work and we had a few drinks (notice a trend? hehe) He knows I have a SO, he even knows that he's planning on moving in with me. He's asked to meet him when he gets here. But sometimes I feel strange hanging out alone with this guy. Maybe in the bars it was okay, but I do feel like a line might have been crossed when he came to my apartment. He never tried to pull anything on me, if he did I would make sure that would be the end. We really have a lot in common and it's hard for me to find people like him to talk to (people who like to travel... for long periods of time... gap year and what not )
So is it possible for us to be "just friends"? I feel like I have had strictly "just friends" guy friends before. I loved it because I felt like I could say anything to them. Any opinions?
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