he lied and i guess its over now . . .

[Zephii]

*Hugs* I'm sorry to hear this. I do think it's over, I feel that he's given up and beside that can't really be trusted. I know you must hurt so badly I wish there was something we could do.

[szrhappi11]

thank you for all of your support. i know ive done the right thing by sending that text it is in his court now. i dont think hes goin to respond back and if he does it will b a long time before he does. this isnt the first time hes walked away like this. im doin much better then i thought i would. i do have my weak moments though like when my mom called me to ask how our trip plannin was goin i broke down instantly. i know im strong and will recover it will just take time. thank you once again

[Bluestars]

I'm sorry that you are going through this *hugs! His actions sound very suspicious.....If he doesn't respond back soon, I think it is best to just push this into the past and move on, even though that might sound very hard right now. You deserve more than this. Go out and do something that you enjoy to get your mind off of this! Best of wishes!

[Moonfire]

I sympathize with the breaking-down-when-talking-to-mom thing - I swear, they have superpowers to see right through you to the problem.

If this is the end of it, I agree with Sarah M - you have to stop yourself from seeing him as "amazing". I know it's hard, especially at first, but over time it gets easier. You can start to pick out the not-so-amazing details about him, and realize that you are an amazing person and deserve an equally amazing partner. If you need someone to talk to, feel free to PM me, I'm a pretty good listener.

[D Crowz]

I totally know what you're going through.... My SO broke it off with me a few days ago and Someone else that's there took my spot.... She said it was distance, and that she needed the support.. and I told her that I would drop everything to go up there.. But I guess it wasn't enough.. And of course this guy she's been friends with for a long time tells her he likes her more then a friend when he knew I was with her... Here.. i quote an Im I had with her.."he said he had to do it before me and you got too involved cuz then he would have no chance"... so I know what you're going though.... if you need a shoulder to lean on, or someone to talk to... just send me a PM or request for my MSN.

She did mention that she still wanted to meet, and see where it takes us from there..... but I just don't know anymore... If there's one thing I hate... it's head games...

[Sarah M]

Be proud of yourself - it sounds like you're doing brilliantly, considering the circumstances.

[Taija]

I'm sorry to hear that. That's a very cowardly way for him to deal with the situation.

I personally don't hate Facebook, though. Me and Jesse both have profiles, although he uses it less than I do. It all just comes down to whether or not your SO is trustworthy.

[BJL_Sweetheart1109]

We've never had FB problems. I trust the SO 100% and more; which is different for me, but something I've never doubted. I did have a couple of girls (including his ex) try to "friend me" since my profile is private. (but that just made me laugh) I think you're doing what you can. You've voiced your concerns about what was going on on FB. Whether you made more of it than it was or not, it bothered you and you two should be able to talk about it. I don't think he handled it appropriately. He should have talked to you, not just deleted you (maybe possible there could be a possible reasonable answer as to why he did this.....maybe). I think it's best to give him a day or so to sort things out and decide what he wants/needs to do. But if he isn't willing to work through this, you deserve more. Stay strong! *hugs*

[Tanja]

Me and Andy's best friend actually convinced him to join Facebook, he was so against it but he gave up and joined eventually lol but tbh we're not on there that much anymore, we get bored of things SO easily!

I've seen some quite suspicious pictures of Andy's female friends (or old classmates) that would get anyone jealous lol but I trust him 110%, I'd trust my life with him and I know he'd never ever do anything to hurt me.

As for flirting on FB, everyone does it! But so what, it's only words. I'm a very flirty person in general but everyone who knows me knows that and they don't take it seriously. Plus there's nothing wrong telling your friends of the opposite sex nice things or complimenting them when they look nice.

The relationship status thing.. If Andy hid his relationship status I wouldn't mind but if he changed it to single yeah it would definitely bother me but I don't think it would be the end of my world, all of my friends know we're together anyway since we keep in touch mostly over the phone or meeting up so whatever anyone says or does in FB isn't really that important and doesn't affect my life.

[Andy]

Me and Andy's best friend actually convinced him to join Facebook, he was so against it but he gave up and joined eventually lol but tbh we're not on there that much anymore, we get bored of things SO easily!

I've seen some quite suspicious pictures of Andy's female friends (or old classmates) that would get anyone jealous lol but I trust him 110%, I'd trust my life with him and I know he'd never ever do anything to hurt me.

Lol, definitely old classmates, I haven't got any friends like that who would make anyone jealous

[szrhappi11]

once again thank you all for your support. its slowly gettin easier every day to try and move on.

[aggie]

It is going to get even better! we're so proud of you! take care.




ugh, i still hate the fact he's being such an idiot.