I have had a much more difficult time adjusting to long distance that my man has. We have been apart for...a year now? He is going to grad school and is very busy with school, homework, rehearsals, and sleep (i know, right? How rude. Sleeping in stead of talking to me =P). We are usually able to talk every evening (though it's hard with the 3hr time difference) and we try to text a little throughout the day. My issue is this: I know I'm a little more needy than I would like to admit and I AM working on it...but we had another fight tonight about the fact that it feels like I'm at the bottom of his priority list and I worry that even though he says he loves me and he wants to try harder...(which I completely believe)...that in the back of his mind, I have made myself "that girl." Does that make sense? That he may try and communicate better...but that it will be because he doesn't want me to whine about it anymore. That I've put too much pressure on him unfairly.
And he knows that I love him. And he knows I know he's busy. But I just worry that....I said too much.
Have any of you been on the other side of this? Or on my side? Help? What have I done?? And is the crack gonna get bigger?
And he knows that I love him. And he knows I know he's busy. But I just worry that....I said too much.
Have any of you been on the other side of this? Or on my side? Help? What have I done?? And is the crack gonna get bigger?
Comment