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    #1

    so totally depressed!!!!!

    I really dont understand this...
    A month ago, I planned on get some cupcakes deliver for my bf birthday.
    I did contact the lady who will be create and deliver them to his house and we already planned on how they will look like with little hearts on the vanilla icing and also a card would go with the cupcake box which would actually come from me...

    Now she doesnt give me any response at all. I emailed her several times and I also did contact my friend who lives there in the same city if she could give her a ring.
    She did so and also she emailed her twice....but no response :-(

    It would have been the perfect surprise since my boyfriend told me he wishes a box with me and a cake inside. Instead of that I would have ordered cupcakes with a card from me which says how much I love him and now I AM F*** LOST :-( I dont know what to do his birthday is tomorrow and my surprise seemed to work out but now... :-(
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    #2
    ummmmm well firstly i don't think 'depressed' is the right word to use here, a severely debilitating mental condition which many people inclding myself have suffered from does not really compare to this and in short, it kinda offends me.

    but, anyway.

    why don't you explain to your bf about what happened, and try and plan something special for tomorrow which is easier? like write a poem for him or set up a movie date or something, and just say that you will send him something but it will be late. these things can't be avoided, just make sure he understands the thought behind it and try and make his day as special as it can be. in the words of people wiser than myself; shit happens.


    Your absence has not taught me how to be alone, it merely has shown that when together we cast a single shadow on the wall. ~ Doug Fetherling

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      #3
      holdinghands, there is such a thing as 'situational depression', so she definitely can feel depressed about this surprise not working out.

      I hope you didn't already pay this woman otherwise I'd have someone contact a lawyer or something. Other than that I agree you could explain to him what happened and that you will, eventually, get it done for him but circumstances and a lack of communication and possibly professionalism on this woman's part sort of had it flop.

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        #4
        Does this lady have a physical store?
        I can understand this must be extremely distressing but not at all worth getting too worked up over. I'm pretty sure you're guy would much rather you feel happy than stressed over a gift for him.

        I hope things sort themselves out
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          #5
          @ holdinghands...maybe "depressed" is really not the perfect word for it but not everyones mother tongue is english in here, for example me.

          yes I will tell him but I really dont know what to do for tomorrow since there are 7 hours time difference and I have to work from 0700am to 0330pm :-(
          Sometimes it feels like the whole bloody world is against me.

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            #6
            You can find one of those websites that deliver small cakes and just get him one of those. You can always save the cupcake idea for next year.

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              #7
              That is sad Did you pay her? No matter what though, I would definitely leave her several bad reviews online. Your boyfriend should be understanding about what happened if you just tell him.

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                #8
                First off...I totally understood what you meant by "depressed" and knew you didn't mean to offend anyone...Lady March Hare...thank you for what you said...I AGREE!

                I am sorry the surprise isn't working out... When it all comes down to it...your love will be enough.... Just remember that.
                NY to Texas Married on...August 17th, 2013

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                  #9
                  Thank you ladies ....its just so...not understandable and when I went to bed last night I felt so strange.
                  Im away for his birthday, I cant give him a kiss and not even my surprise will work out :-(
                  I think you know when I say "sometimes it seems everyone is against you" and nothing is working out.
                  Well, at least I know he will understand it, hes not someone who really does want to get a big present i think...and I cant fulfill his wish anyway..me deliverd in a box :-)

                  But thank you all for reading and understanding...

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                    #10
                    You could make a pop up cut out of yourself blowing him a kiss and put it in a small gift box and mail it to him late. And maybe some other little things that he likes. But since you can't send him anything by tomorrow maybe you can have a surprise party for him on video or on skype. Just get a little cupcake and a candle and have him blow it out and a party hat and balloons and everything...I did that for my SO this year and he loved it...also I wrote him a birthday later telling him what we would do if we were together and how I felt about him. Its all about showing him that you love him and you know him best so I'm sure you can find something :-). Don't stress too much

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                      #11
                      I am sorry this didin't work out! I also really hope you didn't pay her. I would be so bummed too.

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