well i have some questions just need some advice i guess, 18 months been in this LDR coming in march, i go see her march 12th! im very excited. but i have been having these break downs, past 3 months or so i have been very depressed, and it seems nothing is going right, my band broke up and just losing friends left and right, things are looking more up now a days thou. well me and my so have been getting into fights, ive heard that im not really being man enough. i have been raised by my mom from when i was about 4, and i have seen a therapist once and he said i am trying to be my own man. So questions one: How can i be more of a man in this LDR, i have had a CDR in the past lasted about a year and a half and it was fine i feel like i did a goodjob as a boyfriend. but how can i be more of a man in this LDR. Next issue, i seem to have this jealousy towards my SO, i mean she does awesome things, with her friends, family, leaveing on cool trips doing cool things. i guess i would say im jealous but i get that feeling because my friends family dont do things really and for the past couple of months it has just been school and SO, thats been my life. im an honor student thou so im happy about that. So question two: how can i defeat this jealous feeling, we will call it, when my SO does things, and then questions three would be, how can i not be so sad because i feel like im missing out on things that she is doin, i know its not my fault its not anyones but i still get very depressed when this happens. today i got this when i had a mini break down "i think im falling out of love" killed me but me and my so talkd about this talked about everything and for the rest of the day it was very up and we spend alot of talking today and it was very good.
but my questions!
1.)how can i be more man in this ldr
2.)this jealous feeling when my so does things that i would like to do...
3.)....be there to do it with you and not feel like im missing out and be sad over it?
but my questions!
1.)how can i be more man in this ldr
2.)this jealous feeling when my so does things that i would like to do...
3.)....be there to do it with you and not feel like im missing out and be sad over it?
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