Its Over

[MissShortie]

I feel for you so much... I know the pain you are feeling and wish I could take it away for you

[KiwiLove]

I am really sorry for you... :-(
I know it sounds stupid but everything has a reason.
If he doesnt call you anymore then there is someone else out there for you, someone who deserves you to the fullest. If he calls then there is maybe a second chance for you two.

*Big Hug* Im thinking about you.

[Niecey]

My heart goes out to you....

[Stina83]

I'm so sorry Know that feeling, and it's so so tough. Hang in there hun, you just have to get through it. We're all here for you if you need it!

[elina]

Oh gosh.. soooo sorry to hear that but sounds like it was the right thing to do.. you can't stay in a relationship you're not happy to be and that you feel is one-sided. You're really brave for ending it.

I wish you all the best and a lot of strength to get through this *hugs*

[__ms.jaye]

I feel so stupid now, like I shouldnt have ended it and just tried to stick it out a little longer.. I'm trying to think if i should call him and just try to properly say good bye.. but I doubt he'd even answer I guess its truly like if he wants to come back he will.. but if not I guess i'll have to move on.

[Stina83]

I don't think you should contact him. If he has anything to say, he should contact you. It's only going to make it harder and frankly it doesn't sound like he's even that upset. He's not worth it, you're a pretty girl and you can do better than some jerk who doesn't appreciate you.

[mllebamako]

I think you should wait before calling him. Think about it a bit first. There are reasons why you broke it off and yes, you're scared right now because it hurts but maybe it was for the best.

[Snowy.Winter]

I'm so sorry ): We're all here for you x.

[Caitlin2009]

please dont leave whatever you do i know your hurting but honestly if he's gonna put up a front in front of his friends so they dont see how hurt he is then he's not worth your time, and if he wants to call you he will dont call him out of fear cause right now i know you feel like your gonna be lonely the rest of your life if you dont have him, thats not true you will find someone, someone who will appreciate you better then he ever could

[Beastofknowledge]

I'm sorry about the break-up. Spend some time on yourself, there will be someone else in the future for you.
As they say, there are plenty of fish in the sea.
Anything gets difficult, just drop me a message.

[theitchinc]

I know i would say something nice and like be strong and you'll get over it and all.
But I would like to let you know I'm going through the exact thing as you and have hardly ever want to come on to this site anymore, cause i'm really hurt.
He was wavering between a break up and on hold with me but he said it, he doesn't see a future with me
But I'm sure he still loves me.
This my sound silly but I'm gonna be a fighter!
I know my boyfriend/ex-boyfriend is not ever gonna come Singapore, not now and in 2-3years time when he would most probably have the money. He would most probably be married already! ITS CHINA! they marry young.
Anyway back to being a fighter!
I feel one-sided since quite an early stage since the long distance started
And started being clingy and upset over the fact I dont see any efforts from him and all.
But I'm NOT going to believe its over!
Going to find all ways for me to get back to China, Beijing ASAP!
Juggling with part-time jobs, school, and insane project mates!
I don't believe in breaking up over the phone, smsing or through any virtual forms.
If you love him and you think he's worth the fight! Fight on!
Do not appear clingy for now. Perhaps you can drop him a short email about how you would really want to work things out and all after some time out with each other?
I might not give the best solutions as i'm not too experienced myself, but this is what i've decided and I totally feel for you and understand your situation!