First and foremost, my girlfriend and I have been doing the long distance dance for almost 2 years now. We've had our ups and downs, but things have always leveled out before.
Yesterday, Monday 17th, she told me that things weren't as passionate or exciting as they used to be. She then followed that statement with "I think it would we better if we took a small break, that will give me time to clear my head and decide whether or not things are working right now. I've just been feeling suffocated and frankly, bored with how things are."
I called her today, just to clear up the logistics of 'break', and she said that we would still be loyal to each other, its just that she wanted some time to herself without us speaking.
She's honest and I trust her, so when she says that she will be loyal during our 'break' I believe her.
Alas, I am still incredibly worried about what the outcome of things will be, and I am still very, very in love with her and I don't want to lose her. Has anyone dealt with this kind of thing before? Even if you haven't, any advice on what to do would be appreciated greatly.
Thanks in advance, wish me luck
Yesterday, Monday 17th, she told me that things weren't as passionate or exciting as they used to be. She then followed that statement with "I think it would we better if we took a small break, that will give me time to clear my head and decide whether or not things are working right now. I've just been feeling suffocated and frankly, bored with how things are."
I called her today, just to clear up the logistics of 'break', and she said that we would still be loyal to each other, its just that she wanted some time to herself without us speaking.
She's honest and I trust her, so when she says that she will be loyal during our 'break' I believe her.
Alas, I am still incredibly worried about what the outcome of things will be, and I am still very, very in love with her and I don't want to lose her. Has anyone dealt with this kind of thing before? Even if you haven't, any advice on what to do would be appreciated greatly.
Thanks in advance, wish me luck
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