Hello All,
So after using some good ideas from LDR, meeting up in India and when I am about to meet her family in USA, my SO decides to call it a day,that too suddenly. On 28th of Dec she decides to talk on me without even making it clear what went wrong.
We have been together for 9 months now and after all these months when she gives her side of explainations she says I do not fit in her dreams and stuffs.
We will be moving to places for our studies and as I know that matured couples do discuss this out and plan it out how to meet and stuffs like that. But may be perhaps me being from India and moving to Canada or USA for business studies and she moving in USA to different state for her undergraudate study might have been in the back of her mind.
But yes this is all of a sudden when I am supposed to meet her family and friends this february when she has her birthday on 14th of feb. I do feel lost at times and its very strange that I got something like this after so much of connectivity for so many months together.
Feels bad and feels lost in love when I had planned and worked towards it so much. All she says is that I should forgive and forget her now. Just no idea how to take all of this at this crucial moment of my career change and studies.
Thank you all for listening to my hearts woes and I feel so bad and so lost.
Thank you all folks
Amit Ganguly
From India
So after using some good ideas from LDR, meeting up in India and when I am about to meet her family in USA, my SO decides to call it a day,that too suddenly. On 28th of Dec she decides to talk on me without even making it clear what went wrong.
We have been together for 9 months now and after all these months when she gives her side of explainations she says I do not fit in her dreams and stuffs.
We will be moving to places for our studies and as I know that matured couples do discuss this out and plan it out how to meet and stuffs like that. But may be perhaps me being from India and moving to Canada or USA for business studies and she moving in USA to different state for her undergraudate study might have been in the back of her mind.
But yes this is all of a sudden when I am supposed to meet her family and friends this february when she has her birthday on 14th of feb. I do feel lost at times and its very strange that I got something like this after so much of connectivity for so many months together.
Feels bad and feels lost in love when I had planned and worked towards it so much. All she says is that I should forgive and forget her now. Just no idea how to take all of this at this crucial moment of my career change and studies.
Thank you all for listening to my hearts woes and I feel so bad and so lost.
Thank you all folks
Amit Ganguly
From India
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