Our main communication is talking over Skype, but when I'm feeling the distance or upset I ask if he'll pop on webcam for me. He's never declined my request and seeing his smile makes me happy. ^^
For times when he's not online and I can't get a hold of him by txt, I've been known to use Google's voice message thing. I'm not sure what it is, but when you try to call someone over Gtalk and they're not online you get a "voice mailbox" and can record up to 10? minutes and it'll be sent to their inbox. I only do this if I'm really upset about something and need to talk to him, but it's not an emergency that I need to wake him up for. It helps just to get it all out. And even if I leave 6 10 minute messages (lol) he listens to them when he can and talks me through my worries to reassure me. <3 It's sometimes better this way because I'm much calmer and less "hysterical" heh.
For times when he's not online and I can't get a hold of him by txt, I've been known to use Google's voice message thing. I'm not sure what it is, but when you try to call someone over Gtalk and they're not online you get a "voice mailbox" and can record up to 10? minutes and it'll be sent to their inbox. I only do this if I'm really upset about something and need to talk to him, but it's not an emergency that I need to wake him up for. It helps just to get it all out. And even if I leave 6 10 minute messages (lol) he listens to them when he can and talks me through my worries to reassure me. <3 It's sometimes better this way because I'm much calmer and less "hysterical" heh.
) or making a big ol' cheesecake with some fresh berries always puts a smile on my face AND takes my mind off things. if I can't bake for some odd reason, I'll make collages out of magazine cut outs, write letters to Brian, play Kingdom Hearts, go for a drive, call up my sister and have a nice chat, or ANYTHING really. sometimes I'll bust out my old coloring books and crayolas and color my heart away.
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