So my SO is having one of her girl friend over from another city for two days and they will be touring around the city. First of all I am jealous of her friend, actually more like envious that her friend get to spend time with her and I don't get to physically spend time with her 
. I wanted so much to go with her all over the city but I won't get to do that for 6 more months. The count down is very very long. She live all the way in Vietnam and I live in the US. The time differences is 15 hours! Also, I won't get to talk to her that much and won't be able to see her on webcam. This has gotten me sad and grouchy all day and will continue to be so for another day. Though, one good thing is that I have something to do all day and all night tomorrow to keep me away from thinking. Even with going out my friends, I feel that at the back of my mind, I still think and miss her so much! It is so so hard sometime and when I feel like this, it make it even harder. I just got off the phone with her, we spoke for 10 mins, now she went to sleep (it is her bedtime, while I just woke up and went to work) and I will have all this time to miss her.
What do you guys do when you miss their SO so much? But can't talk or text them because they are sleeping? How do you get over this overwhelming feeling of sadness, missing someone? Whenever your SO went out with friends, do you feel envious of the friends and wishing it was you that get to go out with them also? I know I should be happy for her, that she have a social life too, but I am unhappy that I can't talk to her. i feel very selfish feeling this way, but i can't help it. I told her I was sad that I didn't get to spend time with her but she says it is ok and that we'll have other time to spend. The next time I could spend with her is valentine day! Which I made a cute video for her, a video of us, of our memories and timeline together. She says that when i went out with my friends, she wish to be with me too. I am new to this community but love what you guys have so far. It help to read and talk to other similar to my situation.
My situation is a little different from all other long distance relationship though. I am a 24 years old woman loving a 30 years old woman. My gf live in Vietnam, which is a very conservative, she can't never tell her family or friends about us. So I am a secret to everybody in her life and this bother me a lot sometime but I can't do anything but accept it. Our love is great but sometime we argue because of this. I have been trying to get her over to the US but everything seem so difficult. No current law allow binational couples to be in the United States since we are deemed "different" or "abnormal". BUt it is just frustrating but we are working on it. I don't get to visit her until 6 more months. I visit her 4 months ago and it was very difficult to leave.
. I wanted so much to go with her all over the city but I won't get to do that for 6 more months. The count down is very very long. She live all the way in Vietnam and I live in the US. The time differences is 15 hours! Also, I won't get to talk to her that much and won't be able to see her on webcam. This has gotten me sad and grouchy all day and will continue to be so for another day. Though, one good thing is that I have something to do all day and all night tomorrow to keep me away from thinking. Even with going out my friends, I feel that at the back of my mind, I still think and miss her so much! It is so so hard sometime and when I feel like this, it make it even harder. I just got off the phone with her, we spoke for 10 mins, now she went to sleep (it is her bedtime, while I just woke up and went to work) and I will have all this time to miss her. What do you guys do when you miss their SO so much? But can't talk or text them because they are sleeping? How do you get over this overwhelming feeling of sadness, missing someone? Whenever your SO went out with friends, do you feel envious of the friends and wishing it was you that get to go out with them also? I know I should be happy for her, that she have a social life too, but I am unhappy that I can't talk to her. i feel very selfish feeling this way, but i can't help it. I told her I was sad that I didn't get to spend time with her but she says it is ok and that we'll have other time to spend. The next time I could spend with her is valentine day! Which I made a cute video for her, a video of us, of our memories and timeline together. She says that when i went out with my friends, she wish to be with me too. I am new to this community but love what you guys have so far. It help to read and talk to other similar to my situation.
My situation is a little different from all other long distance relationship though. I am a 24 years old woman loving a 30 years old woman. My gf live in Vietnam, which is a very conservative, she can't never tell her family or friends about us. So I am a secret to everybody in her life and this bother me a lot sometime but I can't do anything but accept it. Our love is great but sometime we argue because of this. I have been trying to get her over to the US but everything seem so difficult. No current law allow binational couples to be in the United States since we are deemed "different" or "abnormal". BUt it is just frustrating but we are working on it. I don't get to visit her until 6 more months. I visit her 4 months ago and it was very difficult to leave.
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