Things that you'd change.

[Emma-Louise]

Is there anything about your SO that you would change had you the chance...?

Looks wise, and personality wise, there's nothing really. I think he's amazing. But.. He hates cameras and he HATES pictures. I have about 2 pictures of my SO and I, and we're not alone in either one of them. He barely goes on Webcam with me and sometimes, I just sigh, and wonder. Does he not want to see me too? Does he not want to take pictures of us together...?

Is there anything you's would change, and also does anyone else's SO not like cameras?

[Caitlin2009]

the only thing i would change about her is her fear of gaining the 300 pounds she was at one point, because it would take a hell of alot of years of her just sitting on her butt and eating nothing but junk food all day, even then i wouldnt wanna change that her fears, her hopes, her dreams, ect are what make her and if i changed anything then she wouldnt be her

[Rugger]

The only thing I would change is the distance. Him and I are hella compatable when it comes to about everything else.

[leonsfangirl]

I wouldnt change a thing about my SO, he wouldnt be the man i love if i did.
As for the camera thing, i'm like your SO, hate them with a passion! the pic i have on here was taken last summer and its one of the handful of pics i like with me in them. I bought a web cam just after christmas and i've still to use it, so nervous. Which is silly beacuse he knows how i look,sound but im just too shy to turn the damn thing on!
It's probably the same for him, give him time (which is what my SO is doing with me :P) and he'll start to feel more comfortable with the idea, let him go at his own pace.
Hope that helps

[nicole]

ha sorry my SO LOVES the camera... he's such a poser... but I wouldn't change that

hmmmm maybe when I'm upset, I wish he wouldn't try to flirt with me... I know he's trying to cheer me up but it's like "I'm mad at you, STOP". But I have told him not to do that, and as we haven't had an argument since, I dunno how he will act.

No-one is perfect, I have a lot to work on too, like speaking up- it takes a lot for me to come out with what is on my mind when I am upset or angry. I freeze up and get overwhelmed with emotion. And I know he hates that, so I'm working on that too. We're working on things together, it's a bumpy road, learning together, but we'll get there in the end.

[Alisz]

The only thing I would change is the distance. Him and I are hella compatable when it comes to about everything else.

My thoughts exactly. It's the only thing I would want to change because it sucks so hard to find someone you fit so well with only to be so far away. And because of it, I guess the only thing that would be nice to change is if he talked more about the mundane day-to-day things that happen with him. Without the distance I wouldn't care, but with it it's something that makes me feel closer physically. But he's working on it. ^^ And like nicole said, no one is perfect and I have things I'm working on too. I wouldn't want to change anything about his looks or personality though because I love his imperfections, just as much as his perfections.

[Moon]

The only thing I might change slightly is his inability to express emotions well. Where he lives, boys are taught stoicism, and showing emotions makes you weak. I'm not a very emotional person myself, so it doesn't effect things too much, but I think it would be good for him.

We've taken lots of pics, he took the one of me on here, but he's quite shy so I don't put any of the ones we've taken together on here, or anywhere else. I don't think he'd appreciate it, and I respect his feelings on that.

[milaya]

Can't even say that I wanted to change the distance. I want it to be over, of course, but can't wish it was never there. Since It's been my dream to marry a Japanese guy since I was 14-15 years old, so now dating with a distance is something I have to get through in order to complete my teenage goal. XD

Guess one thing I would like to change,... is to make him understand that I can't be positive and worry-free all the time. I'm tired of that, when I'm sad, negative or worried he keeps telling me to cheer up, instead of just listening to my problems.

[fiestydyste]

Threw my research, photos between International LDR's are very important-- especially when it comes time for the big move from one country to another... they want to know that you have been together and taken the time to visit and develop a relationship...

my SO also loves pictures of himself.. I'm starting to think he's a Photo Diva! lol... but one thing with my SO that does bother me slightly... is that due to certain events in his life, he's very closed! In the beginning of our relationship, he asked me not to post things on his FB page of "relationship" subject matter-- I had started to feel like he was hiding me or didn't trust me, or even that he was already seeing someone else... But this is slowly getting better-- he commented recently that he missed me on a status I had posted! easiest way to put it... my SO doesn't like his business listed on a social network like Facebook! So we're forced to communicate via phone, text, email or messenger. and we don't always get a lot of time between his work, school, band Gigs and his family life--- I just wish we had more time together!

[loveknowsnodistance27]

I wouldn't really change much because I love him for who he is. I know he has his flaws, and I respect them. I do wish he would express his feelings and his emotions more to me and I wish he was a little more "photogenic." He tends to have a hard time putting on a natural smile for the cameras, so we end up trying to take the same picture 10 times in order to get a good one. I also would like him to maybe send me a hand-written letter.

[beaton]

the distance is what causes problems for us. But, and I hate to be sappy, though there are some things that make him flawed, I wouldn't change them. He lives very much in the moment so sometimes I feel forgotten, as he is a man of actions, not words, and forgets sometimes that I'm not around so I can't tell he's thinking of me unless he SAYS something...lol but he has gotten better about that.

[toggle]

well i love him dearly, but sometime's he's a bit thrifty. like when we went to america, he would order water and just drink from my soda so we didn't have to buy two. but maybe we balance eacho ther out with that, as I'm a bit careless with money which i'm sure annoys him!

[folclor]

Alex hates cameras ^^; it is frustrating because I want pictures of us cuddling or whatever but he doesn't want any. I'd change that if I could...and I'd change that he wants to go slower than I do. I dunno, though, maybe that second thing is a good thing. I'm happy with him regardless and I don't want him to change his personality ^^;

[kireinamida]

I can't think of anything that I would like to change. Maybe because I really don't want to change anything about him. ^^

[Marikusa]

I wouldnt change anything. I love him no matter what.. even though sometimes he makes me angry.

My bf loves the camera. I don't! I barely have pictures of myself. My boyfriend only has one picture of me.. I really hate pictures. As soon as people are taking pictures i dodge till they stop trying. I'm just not photogenic at all and i always come out with my eyes closed even when i was sure they were open.. I do get on cam for him, but i hate it. I still do it for him though. -_-

It's probably not that he doesn't want to see you.. He just probably doesn't want to have to get on cam.. Usually when you ask someone to cam, they expect you to cam back. This is also why i don't ask my bf to cam.. That way i wont have to cam. hehe