I've talked this over with my SO a few times...but still our middle ground we agreed about is not completely stable. It "could" potentially move back a few years if we run into finical difficulties.
In my LDR... I am the one is wanted to get married sooner, like before 25. But my SO views on this are the complete opposite... she would rather get married later like 27. When we did discuss this in our emails we came to a rough (very rough) agreement that we would try and get married at 25 (when she is 25). Lately I asked her about the possibility of getting married one year sooner, but she said that would be too early.
My reasoning for getting married sooner, would be because we could bring our lives together sooner instead of waiting longer...
Also due to our cultural differences moving together before marriage is a bit of a challenge.
I posted this thread last month referring to that...
Thinking-Ahead-Moving-to-be-with-your-sweetheart
I would like to have her to come over to Canada when she finishes her studies. We would live together while I am going to university and working part-time, and I'd help her get a job in Canada. We "might" be engaged around now... but I would still keep that a surprise for my SO. Also another reason for her to come to Canada is that our currency is stronger than South East Asia, it is a lot safer and we have a lot more rights (you can't kiss in public in Malaysia).
So ya all.... what is your opinion on marriage? when should the knot get tied?
In my LDR... I am the one is wanted to get married sooner, like before 25. But my SO views on this are the complete opposite... she would rather get married later like 27. When we did discuss this in our emails we came to a rough (very rough) agreement that we would try and get married at 25 (when she is 25). Lately I asked her about the possibility of getting married one year sooner, but she said that would be too early.
My reasoning for getting married sooner, would be because we could bring our lives together sooner instead of waiting longer...
Also due to our cultural differences moving together before marriage is a bit of a challenge.
I posted this thread last month referring to that...
Thinking-Ahead-Moving-to-be-with-your-sweetheart
I would like to have her to come over to Canada when she finishes her studies. We would live together while I am going to university and working part-time, and I'd help her get a job in Canada. We "might" be engaged around now... but I would still keep that a surprise for my SO. Also another reason for her to come to Canada is that our currency is stronger than South East Asia, it is a lot safer and we have a lot more rights (you can't kiss in public in Malaysia).
So ya all.... what is your opinion on marriage? when should the knot get tied?
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