Sunshine after the Storm

[nic&matt]

Just a quick thought.
After fights and hard times, for the most part there's a glorious conclusion, epiphany, or life lesson I feel like we learn.
After arguments with my SO (even though they suck in the moment) we come out stronger than ever, and it's so amazing!
Whenever we first start fighting, I kinda get excited. I feel like I'll get renewed in the end.

That sounds really awful and really bizarre.

Anyone else like that?

[KiwiLove]

Yes its the same for me..Whenever we had a silly argument about anything stupid we have a talk and after that I feel so...different!
I miss him even more, I could say I love you every other second (dont have the chance though) and I feel just good.

Dont really know why that happens. I guess its because the distance (?) we cant talk face to face and we cant give each other a kiss or a big hug after we solved the problem.. :-/

[Jrapp]

YES! I was always puzzled by this, but the exact thing happens with my SO and I!

[beaton]

We grow from our trials, so it makes sense that as you learn life lessons from resolving disagreements with each other, that you grow in the same direction and feel closer. If you don't fight with your SO, how are they supposed to recognize and accept all sides of you?

[AllieBaba]

I'm not going to say I get excited when we first get into a fight... because I hate arguing with him, but in the end I feel, like you said, it makes us stronger. I think it's normal when couples fight or argue from time to time but the most important thing is being able to communicate and fix the problem.