So I haven't posted in the forum section in FOREVER, I'm mostly a blogger on this site, but I figured I'd post on here for a change.
I'm here to say that our relationship is still alive. The past two days have been brutal and grueling. We got into a huge argument late last night, he wanted to end it and i tried to keep him going. Then, after a very emotional morning for both of us, we talked again, this time me being the one who thought it'd be better just to end it, and him having to hang on.
I don't really want to get into the details because I would like to keep it private for the most part, but it really was a long time coming. (Note to new LDRs and in general: don't keep things from your SO, honesty is the most important aspect of this type of relationship) I went in not knowing what was going to happen, and hours later we figured it out. Not without tears, however. But we figured it out. Something that I'm proud to say and announce. Mostly the main reason why I'm posting. We figured out a lot of stuff and cleared it all up. Everything's okay. Misunderstandings....suck.
We figured it out. (Also note, COMMUNICATION is key.)
Again, thank you so much to anyone who has given me advice on here..each one of you means so much to me.
Today I thought I'd be posting a break up forum/blog, and I am incredibly glad that I'm saying we got through this and we're slowly making progress.
We took 10 steps back, and then took 12 forward.
Alexander, I love you. And I believe in my heart that that is the reason why I just said sweet dreams to you, and that I can't wait to talk to you tomorrow, to fix this and move forward together as a couple.
I'm here to say that our relationship is still alive. The past two days have been brutal and grueling. We got into a huge argument late last night, he wanted to end it and i tried to keep him going. Then, after a very emotional morning for both of us, we talked again, this time me being the one who thought it'd be better just to end it, and him having to hang on.
I don't really want to get into the details because I would like to keep it private for the most part, but it really was a long time coming. (Note to new LDRs and in general: don't keep things from your SO, honesty is the most important aspect of this type of relationship) I went in not knowing what was going to happen, and hours later we figured it out. Not without tears, however. But we figured it out. Something that I'm proud to say and announce. Mostly the main reason why I'm posting. We figured out a lot of stuff and cleared it all up. Everything's okay. Misunderstandings....suck.
We figured it out. (Also note, COMMUNICATION is key.)
Again, thank you so much to anyone who has given me advice on here..each one of you means so much to me.
Today I thought I'd be posting a break up forum/blog, and I am incredibly glad that I'm saying we got through this and we're slowly making progress.
We took 10 steps back, and then took 12 forward.
Alexander, I love you. And I believe in my heart that that is the reason why I just said sweet dreams to you, and that I can't wait to talk to you tomorrow, to fix this and move forward together as a couple.
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