What do you think?

[Leigh]

Which is harder waiting long periods of time between visits to see your SO or departing when the visits are over?

[LotusWing]

I find both are hard to deal with.
It feels forever to wait, and when I'm with my SO, the time passes by so fast that it's so difficult to leave him when the days are over. Sigh...

[NaNi]

Both.

[AllieBaba]

Departing when the visit is over. It's hard to go from being with him 24/7 to just talking on the phone and watching him on the webcam but not being able to touch him, kiss him, cuddle with him, and much more if you know what I mean

[Tabitha]

It's so hard to leave or watch him leave, but it's even harder waiting until the next visit. Days just seem to go by so slowly.

[FadedSunrise]

Departing. I've been getting pretty used to the wait, prioritizing things in my head and not letting myself dwell too much except early mornings and late nights. Add being really busy, and waiting has been ok.

[Sora1101]

I find it harder waiting, watching him leave doesn't seem to hit me for awhile, then I don't feel sad that he's gone, I feel sad because I know it'll be a long time before I can see him again.

[paulawriteslove]

They're both difficult in their own way. But I would have to say departing is a bit more difficult. It's really hard when you get comfortable having your SO with you all the time, and then it's like *poof* they're gone. So that's always a bit challenging and takes time to adjust to just being by yourself again.

[Elissa]

Waiting.

[threecheers9980]

They're equally hard for me.

[toggle]

I was thinking about this the other day. I think departing is worse. It's more of a sharp, heartbreaking pain. I think for my SO it's the opposite though, he doesn't get as upset as I do when we say goodbye, but he gets more upset about not being together when we're apart.

[Far_Away_So_Close]

Departing. When you're apart for a while, you at least have some kind of a routine. The sudden cuts hurt the most.

[Far_Away_So_Close]

I was thinking about this the other day. I think departing is worse. It's more of a sharp, heartbreaking pain. I think for my SO it's the opposite though, he doesn't get as upset as I do when we say goodbye, but he gets more upset about not being together when we're apart.

Sounds just like us.

[sabby64]

I think the time in between is harder, at least for me. I'm usually okay for the first week or so after departing, but after that things get really hard for me and it takes all my power not to jump on a bus and go home.

[princessmeg1328]

For me, i think the waiting is harder. It just sucks to have to wait around for him to come here or me to go there. Watching him leaves at least means that he was with me.