@Horizondreaming, thank you so much for that comment! I guess I might have been a bit passive aggressive. Although, on hindsight, I don't even know why I was so mad at the situation. He's done this before, and most of the time I'm perfectly alright with it. I have a lot of trust in my SO because I know he's not the kind of person who would cheat. I guess the stress is getting to me more than it should, especially when you deal with bad news after bad news for the last 48 hours...
@13000km, LostInLove and Dziubka, I realize that I might have been overreacting to my situation and taking my frustration out at my SO. Admittedly I would certainly have preferred if he had been around as an emotional support, but then again, I need to accept that fact that he has a life to live and even during the period when we were CD he goes out social dancing and partying all the time too without me. Sometimes he comes across as though he doesn't give a crap in his text messages, which saddens me sometimes. And I guess that in this situation that tone of messages were enough to push me over the edge. I certainly think it's something to work on, which I will do my utmost best to bring up the next time. The issue is, our relationship is mostly amiable, and loving, and 99% of the time we don't have any problems! ^___^ We're really similar in our way of thinking, opinions and actions, but both enjoy a good debate. My SO is a very responsible drinker, or so I hope I'm right! Our relationship was built on us basically meeting at a party, so I shouldn't even have a problem with that. Plus he social dances! I don't understand myself sometimes. /weird girl is weird
Our relationship is really just about us talking and sharing our lives with each other, etc, so I'm sure this topic will come up again, hopefully when I've managed to settle everything, register for classes etc. Basically get over this situation I don't want to deal with but I don't have a choice. I hope I didn't react too badly, or did stupid things, but blah, I suppose I don't work very well under stress when everything just stops working out. I guess it was just a problem of "wrong place, wrong time".
I'll keep you guys posted - we kinda ended the USA day on not the best terms. I haven't heard back from him and am going to sleep soonish, so maybe when i wake up and he's not too busy out social dancing... I should just keep my mouth shut until I've calmed down and all that and thought things over. ahsdkjasldjhasl.
@8000miles - hahaha I took up your suggestion on that! And if 13000km wants cookies I will be more than happy to make them for her.
@13000km, LostInLove and Dziubka, I realize that I might have been overreacting to my situation and taking my frustration out at my SO. Admittedly I would certainly have preferred if he had been around as an emotional support, but then again, I need to accept that fact that he has a life to live and even during the period when we were CD he goes out social dancing and partying all the time too without me. Sometimes he comes across as though he doesn't give a crap in his text messages, which saddens me sometimes. And I guess that in this situation that tone of messages were enough to push me over the edge. I certainly think it's something to work on, which I will do my utmost best to bring up the next time. The issue is, our relationship is mostly amiable, and loving, and 99% of the time we don't have any problems! ^___^ We're really similar in our way of thinking, opinions and actions, but both enjoy a good debate. My SO is a very responsible drinker, or so I hope I'm right! Our relationship was built on us basically meeting at a party, so I shouldn't even have a problem with that. Plus he social dances! I don't understand myself sometimes. /weird girl is weird
Our relationship is really just about us talking and sharing our lives with each other, etc, so I'm sure this topic will come up again, hopefully when I've managed to settle everything, register for classes etc. Basically get over this situation I don't want to deal with but I don't have a choice. I hope I didn't react too badly, or did stupid things, but blah, I suppose I don't work very well under stress when everything just stops working out. I guess it was just a problem of "wrong place, wrong time".
I'll keep you guys posted - we kinda ended the USA day on not the best terms. I haven't heard back from him and am going to sleep soonish, so maybe when i wake up and he's not too busy out social dancing... I should just keep my mouth shut until I've calmed down and all that and thought things over. ahsdkjasldjhasl.
@8000miles - hahaha I took up your suggestion on that! And if 13000km wants cookies I will be more than happy to make them for her.
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