Keeper (my nickname for my BF) and I realized we cannot bear to only see each other every other weekend.
we've morphed into this pattern and over this past weekend we agreed to make it a formal agreement
alternate weekends I go up for one night (either friday or saturday)
on the other weekends I go up for 3 nights. (friday saturday and sunday)
It's cheaper and easier for me to go to him as i like to drive it and he hates to drive and he would have to stay at a hotel because of my dogs....
this is nuts... but it's how we can cope...
we have agreed he will sign another one year lease in August... so we are looking at about 16 more months to be in the same state (and probably the same house).... but knowing we will be able to see each other every weekend makes it easier...
Keeper gave me a beautiful necklace and bracelet on Friday when I went to see him....a symbol of our commitment to each other.... makes it much easier.
this is a man who states he does not need daily contact and yet
he wants a morning wake up call
he texts me daily
we skype almost daily
we talk almost every day
we email daily
I saw him Friday and yet today I was able to tell him FOUR MORE SLEEPS and we will be together... and we have a weekend coming up with NO PLANS how nice for us...
he did take me to meet his grandmother (she raised him and is in a nursing home) and asked me to be his backup contact as there is no one else.
yes I am scared... OMG what am I doing... it's LDR, it's age gap, it's a morph from an affair with a FWB.... OMG.... how crazy is this?
it's crazy.... but it is what it is....
we've morphed into this pattern and over this past weekend we agreed to make it a formal agreement
alternate weekends I go up for one night (either friday or saturday)
on the other weekends I go up for 3 nights. (friday saturday and sunday)
It's cheaper and easier for me to go to him as i like to drive it and he hates to drive and he would have to stay at a hotel because of my dogs....
this is nuts... but it's how we can cope...
we have agreed he will sign another one year lease in August... so we are looking at about 16 more months to be in the same state (and probably the same house).... but knowing we will be able to see each other every weekend makes it easier...
Keeper gave me a beautiful necklace and bracelet on Friday when I went to see him....a symbol of our commitment to each other.... makes it much easier.
this is a man who states he does not need daily contact and yet
he wants a morning wake up call
he texts me daily
we skype almost daily
we talk almost every day
we email daily
I saw him Friday and yet today I was able to tell him FOUR MORE SLEEPS and we will be together... and we have a weekend coming up with NO PLANS how nice for us...
he did take me to meet his grandmother (she raised him and is in a nursing home) and asked me to be his backup contact as there is no one else.
yes I am scared... OMG what am I doing... it's LDR, it's age gap, it's a morph from an affair with a FWB.... OMG.... how crazy is this?
it's crazy.... but it is what it is....
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