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    For those of you who haven't read my blog...

    My SO and I broke up 2 days ago. We're going to hopefully stay friends, but for the time being we're not talking to each other, to give us both time to heal and move on, and to give him time to study and focus on his exams that are coming up, so he can graduate uni.

    The breakup was due to major religious differences, ones that neither of us were willing to compromise or budge on. It is hard that things couldn't work out between us, as he and I had a perfect relationship in every other way, and he pretty much embodied what I want my future husband to be, but I know that it is the best thing for both of us, so I'm not sad about the decision itself.

    Anyway, I miss him, but so far I've had tons of support from you guys, my friends, and my family, so I'm doing all right.

    And, I don't plan on leaving the forums.... I love seeing how the rest of you folks are faring, and hopefully I can still offer advice and input from time to time. Plus, there's tons of great advice to be had here, and I can hopefully learn and prepare for my next relationship, whenever that comes around.

    Thanks for everything this site has been to me.
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    #2
    Ohh...sorry to still hear that but I'm glad you're moving on with a clear mind and a good idea that you made the right decision. Thanks for staying on, your advice and comments are always much appreciated! Best of luck to your future

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      #3
      I'm so sorry to hear that! I hope that everything works out for the best.
      "I'll hold you in my heart till I can hold you in my arms again."


      "It's supposed to be hard! If it wasn't hard, everyone would do it. The hard...is what makes it great! -A League of Their Own

      Met: August 22, 2010
      Made it official: September 17, 2010
      Got engaged: January 15, 2012
      Our First Visit: November 18, 2010-November 28, 2010
      Our Seventh (and Last) Visit: November 10, 2012-November 24, 2012
      Got married: November 21, 2012
      Big Wedding Date: May 25, 2013
      Closed the Distance: June 2, 2013

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        #4
        I had a relationship in the past that the break up was due to our diference in religion. Life sends you signs and maybe its for the best. I know that in my case relationship was fine but just an issue with the diference due to religion. Now he is happily married and expecting a kid. And im with my amazing bf so i dont regret what happend. Things happen for a reason so glad that you feel ok. And here you have lots of ppl that can support you. Good luck with everything. Hang in there.

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          #5
          I'm glad you aren't leaving the site and I completely understand your decision. I've been there and it was incredibly hard, but overall, the right thing for both of us. I have since moved on and met my wonderful SO and I wish the same for you! I hope in time the two of you can become friends and I hope the healing process isn't too hard on either of you.

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            #6
            I'm very sorry to hear that. But I'm glad you seem to be doing all right. I hope things will continue to go well for you. Good luck!
            "Once the realization is accepted that even between the closest human beings infinite distances continue,
            a wonderful living side by side can grow, if they succeed in loving the distance between them
            which makes it possible for each to see the other whole against the sky."
            - Rainer Maria Rilke




            "An invisible red thread connects those who are destined to meet,
            regardless of time, place, or circumstance.
            The thread may stretch or tangle, but it will never break."
            - an ancient Chinese belief

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              #7
              I'm so sorry, but i'm glad you're doing okay and you're staying positive!
              I wish you the best, and i'm glad that you're not leaving!

              Distance doesn't matter when two hearts are loyal to each other.

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                #8
                I'm so sorry, but i'm glad you're doing okay and you're staying positive!
                I wish you the best, and i'm glad that you're not leaving!

                Distance doesn't matter when two hearts are loyal to each other.

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                  #9
                  I'm sorry. I wish you all the best.

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                    #10
                    I'm sorry to hear this, but the fact that you're sure about your decision is a good thing.
                    I really wish your all the best and I'm happy to hear that you'll stay around.
                    I'm sure you still have lots of advice to give and maybe also receive.

                    Hugs.

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