Up until around Christmas time I had baby fever like you wouldn't believe. It didn't help that there was a late period and plenty of symptoms, and everyone was pregnant. Then I snapped out of it, and my husband did too. We're 22 and 23, newlyweds, finally settled in our own home and enjoying the life we have built and are building together. We have only a short time to be a couple, accomplish certain goals, and the rest of our lives to be parents. What's the rush? I love babies, everything about them, and I know we'll make great parents but the fever and the rush is over. Don't let yourself, your medication side effect, or your SO pressure you into something you aren't ready for. Take your time








it's strictly biological, I see babies and I can't help but feel my ovaries melting. Especially now that I'm with a man I love. He's of course terrified by the idea of having them now, but he's made it clear he wants them later. I made it clear I don't want them before marriage. So that's at least another 4 years. Which is just as well as I'm too scared at the thought of having them now in this chaotic state I'm living in. It's a life-changing decision you can't take back, so don't do it until you personally feel ready.


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