My SO has a bad habit (IMO) of barely ever sending me little random messages, whether it be by txt or by the internet. Wtv. I get over it, even though I wish he would.
Sometimes, this bothers me to a point where I am frustrated with him and I get aggravated and start taking it out on him. I hint endlessly at these little things that I would like (it barely ever works).
So when I to a point, where i am frustrated and aggravated and wish I could just have ONE random message from him, I stop myself and I think of all the things he does for me that are random and loving and all the good things about him. he doesnt have to send me a message to show and tell he loves me. He does that already in the way he looks at me (even if it is through a webcam), the way he talks to me, the way he says goodnight, just, the simple things he does that he doesnt even know he is doing.
if you are to a point of aggravation, just stop and think of all the things your SO does for you and how they show you that they love you.
It helps.
Sometimes, this bothers me to a point where I am frustrated with him and I get aggravated and start taking it out on him. I hint endlessly at these little things that I would like (it barely ever works).
So when I to a point, where i am frustrated and aggravated and wish I could just have ONE random message from him, I stop myself and I think of all the things he does for me that are random and loving and all the good things about him. he doesnt have to send me a message to show and tell he loves me. He does that already in the way he looks at me (even if it is through a webcam), the way he talks to me, the way he says goodnight, just, the simple things he does that he doesnt even know he is doing.
if you are to a point of aggravation, just stop and think of all the things your SO does for you and how they show you that they love you.
It helps.
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