Does your SO know?

[LadyMarchHare]

He doesn't know this site even exists, which is fine since I know he frequents a lot more forums for his different interests. A support forum wouldn't be his thing. I don't post under this username anywhere else though it's close enough to my nickname that he'd know who it was anyway.

[milaya]

My SO knows I'm a part of a community for long distance relationships, that's all.
My SO wouldn't understand the site anyway, since his English skills are very limited. XD

[leonsfangirl]

I was talking about the forum to him yesterday as it happens, he was surprised that they had a forum for LDR's. He didn't ask for the name but did ask if it helped me to deal with our situation which it does alot.
Not sure if he'll join up, my username he may guess but as my picture is on here won't take him long to find me. There are a few posts i wouldn't like him to read where I'm bitching but on the whole i think he'd be ok.

He did say one thing that was sweet though, i told him there is an Alumni section for people who have closed the distance/married and such and he said "Hopefully, one day we'll be on there"

[Caitlin2009]

she knows i post on here, most of the time i tell her what goes on here, and ask questions people sometimes ask on here as well, she doesnt know my screename but if she wanted to know i would tell her. as for things i write on here not worried at all minus the things i said about her parents last year but ehhh was a rough time and if i explained it to her she would understand

[kteire]

My SO doesn't know about here, partly cause I only joined last week XD I'll probably tell him today or tomorrow. I would only be embarrassed for him to see my posts, because he'd see how much I talk about him, haha. He'd already know everything I've talked about on here, I can't and don't want to keep anything from him!!

[NaNi]

My SO is also a member of the forum. She told me about this board actually. I don't mind her reading my stuff. I only post things which I would also talk to her about.

[rivi87]

my SO knows I am on a Long distance forum.just not which one...I wouldnt care if he wanted to see what I wrote though...but like another girl said...he's more interested in being part of a car forum and also a military forum...lol and I'm fine with that :P

[Brandie]

I told Ben about it, and he checked it out and said he approved lol He made an account but he doesn't use it. I don't think he really comes on to look at what I'm posting I doubt it's on his mind all day lol but if he ever did look at my posts or my blogs, I wouldn't care. I actually would encourage him to read my blog since it's a lot of things I think he should know, like how much I love him and that he's amazing!

[Sierra]

My boyfriend doesn't know that I'm a member of this forum. It's not really important to me that he does. It's more of like a safe place for me to come to talk about my relationship, but if he were to ask I would tell him what name I post under.

[FadedSunrise]

Nope, and even if he did he couldn't read it! HAHA. We communicate in Chinese, my first language(though no longer my dominant, after years of schooling here), and this much English on a single page would give him a headache! He's learning, but it won't be up to speed to read forum posts for a while. I'm mostly here to work out my side of the relationship under no stress conditions.

[lucybelle]

Not only does my SO not know about this, NO ONE knows about it. I always use an "incognito" browser when I'm on the site so no one can see any history of LFAD. Sorry LFAD fam...

[blankita719]

He knows I am on a forum, not sure if he remembers the name of it though. I talk about it all the time, and about some of the friends I have made. Plus we also have discussions about topics that people bring up. He's not on the internet very often though, so he'd never join. And I'm glad he won't. I like having my private corner where I can discuss things before I talk to him.

[Lunar Snow]

No, I don't think he knows? I hope he doesn't. I have posted some quite emotional or embarrassing things here and while I have worked up the courage to talk about most of the salient ones with him, it was in a way and time that I thought would work in the most constructive manner for our relationship. Sometimes, I need to just blow some steam off here, so that I am not stewing about every, little thing and other times I open up raw feelings and thoughts for advice and it's true that I don't want him to look at these things in a state where I am feeling overwhelmed and need to think about them more logically. Some of the posts would be like if I had a journal gushing about mostly the bad, embarrassing, or confusing things through our relationship and he read it--I don't think it would make either of us feel very good.

On the other hand, he does know I post in a forum about long-distance relationships, though I don't often remind him of it. Sometimes, I swear there are frequent and bizarre coincidences and timing that would make it seem as if maybe he had read a blog post I had made or a thread I had made (it's possible since he is very clever with computers and is naturally curious, that he could have found out about this place), but then I wonder if I am being paranoid and it's just him becoming more intuitive about how I am feeling (which is really good progress for him). There are occasional times where I wish that maybe he would read a blog post or a thread, like when I celebrate something happy between us, or when I am finding something really difficult to talk about or bring up with him.

[Dziubka]

He knows about the forum and a few times I've asked his opinion on situations from here.
He sometimes jokingly says that he'll register, because I spend so much time on here that it must be really exciting.
He hasn't though and I doubt he will. His English is quite limited, so it would probably be too difficult for him to understand everything and he probably just isn't interested in other people's relationships, long distance or not.
I never post anything I wouldn't tell him or want him to read, though.

[Xanahtas]

My SO doesnt know I post here, but if he did find this he would instantly know i do because my username is very unique. (its a long story but basically its my names jumbled up with an X added in, im possibly the only person in the world with this name XD) But i do tell him i speak to other people in LDR and he knows i look on forums and stuff. I dont think he'd mind me posting here tbh