Does your SO know?

[Phimini]

My boy doesn't know, simply because it hasn't come up in conversation yet. I wouldn't have a problem if he looked around here. It'd be really easy for him to figure out who I am, considering my username is the same one I go by in the chatroom we met. I don't think he'd end up joining though... I don't think this is really his scene, so to speak. But then again, he's the type to surprise me with what he will and won't do so...

[Dauntedpoet]

I've mentioned belonging to the forums here a few times, but he's not the kind of guy who would visit this kind of site. I'd tell him if he wanted to know, although it's kinda nice that he's not interested.

^This. He knows the name as I've told him it, but other than asking "is your blog and post site keeping you entertained?" He has no interest.

[rori795]

He's currently in basic training, and wouldn't be able to get on a computer to check it out even if he wanted to. That said, I haven't told him about it ,merely because at the moment we're communicating via handwritten letters and it hasn't really come up. When he can come back into the digital world when he's done with basic, I may or may not tell him about it, but I don't think he would ever join.

[princessmeg1328]

My SO knows that I'm on a forum for people in LDRs,but I highly doubt he would ever join. He only goes on the internet when he wants. He very rarely gets on facebook even, usually only when I tell him he needs to check something or he's really bored. Sometimes I even have to remind him to check his personal e-mail. I do ask him for his advice sometimes on situations. It would be very easy for him to find me on here. My username is the same one I've had since I has 13 and is my username for everything.

[Pixie]

Mine doesn't know. I don't think he'd really be too interested, to be honest. I kind of like having my own little spot to go, even if I spend most of my time on here just reading what other people write. Haha.

[ClipitsWings]

....XD i never told him anything about this at all

[Zandria]

He does not know, but I'm sure I will tell him later on. Though I doubt he'd join on here, lol, I don't think it's his kind of thing.

[Deleted Account]

oh he knows... and he reads the forums from time to time.. not too much tho.. i think he only posted once if anything...

[DropkickDisco]

I talk to Brian a LOT about LFAD, but I can't see him joining (although it'd be cool) especially since we're closing the distance in a little over a month. He doesn't have any issues with it, and has actually never really expressed his opinion on it (which I'm assuming means it's not a negative one) sooo.. yeah. Even if he did get on here, he'd obviously know who I was from my picture, and the fact that I use my Dropkick Disco handle on EVERYTHING.

[theyellowdart]

I've brought it up and even linked her to the website when I first found it. She would know me by my username, as its the username I used on the website that we met on Also, if for some reason she didn't figure it out off of that, she would definitely figure it out as I refer to her as moopiedoo in my signature :\

I don't really have anything posted that she'd be upset over or anything.. or that i'd hide.. though she might make fun of me for some things :P

[Élan]

My SO knows about the site and has seen it before, but he has never spent much time here. He doesn't have much free time and the little bit he does have is spent reading news and checking football sites.

[DarkSolitary]

My boyfriend knows about this site. He doesn't have an interest though in joining. Which is fine by me I like that this is my safe place.

[tiffinnie]

he knows it and I actually had him sign up for the site a while back because he is going to need the amazing support that this community has to offer, as well as the fact that there are people here who speak his native language and I don't, so theres more support than I could give sometimes... if he chooses to use it.

He knows my name on here (how could he not? lol) and he doesn't check anything because he values privacy and knows that if I have something to say to him I say it. we don't hide anything and he is fully aware that I talk about some things that normal couples would consider to be private, but he is fine with that because at least I'm not walking up to his best friend and saying the things I say on here... or people that actually know him.

[loveknowsnodistance27]

I've never told him about this site, nor do I ever plan on it. This is my own little piece of the Internet which I use for support in our LDR and I just wouldn't want him to see what I post at times. It's not like I'm bashing him, because I don't. It's the insecure days I have, and the times I talk about how I'd like to get engaged to him...I don't want him to see my insecurity, and I know the thought of engagement would scare him so much at this point. (He's a 19 year old guy, what do you expect? lol)

[Hilary]

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