He broke up with me..

[iamangel]

I feel what you feel not exactly but I know it really hurts. It's like you don't want to cry but you can't stop it and all the negative emotions are there. If only i'm there for you to give you a hug and say to you that there's a purpose why it's happening...Just let it out all what you feel and in no time you will feel better. We're here for you , your LFAD friends. Just message me if you want to talk with....

[redbellepepper]

Someone out there wants you, truly wants you, and won't be silly enough to let you go.

I certainly agree!

*hugs hugs hugs*

[BoogleBee]

I am so so sorry! I certainly didn't expect to see a message like this coming from you!
It does not mean nobody wants you though! Don't think like that. These were his issues. It's not your fault.

I am just so sorry! *warm hugs* to you.

[DropkickDisco]

I am so so sorry. if I was anywhere near you I'd bring you cookies and cupcakes and hugs and movies and fun. <3 I'm here if you need to talk.

It's really strange that'd he'd suddenly change his mind like that. :/ But please don't think you're ugly/unworthy/that nobody will ever want you. There is a someone out there for EVERYONE. You are a beautiful woman who deserves to smile every day, so please, in the midst of all of this, try and find a way to shine.

[theyellowdart]

but it seems I wasn't good enough and wasn't worth keeping me in his life.

That right there should be more than enough to tell you that you are in fact good enough and deserve way better than this dooder... No one should ever give you reason to think that you aren't.. if they do, they aren't worth your time of day. You deserve better Brandie and I know you'll find it. Just keep your chin up and everything will work itself out in the end. Feel free to message me on here or facebook or whatever if you need someone to talk to, hang in there!

[rawrimolivia]

I can't stop crying....everything has been going amazing, i just saw him a week and a half ago, and he said he wanted to be with me forever and ever and ever and that I was the best gf he has ever had, and tonight he broke up with me. said he has been changing, and doesn't want to get married, doesn't want kids, and that he wants to be single.

I feel so broken, I feel like I'm in a dream, nothing is real right now, I feel ugly, horrible, disgusting, and awful that he broke my heart and now I'm alone. I never thought I would be writing this, but it seems I wasn't good enough and wasn't worth keeping me in his life.

I could use a hug right now but nobody is around. everything has been going great, guys thanks for everything but god do i feel so alone and confused right now. His mom and I are talking and she is just as confused as I am, I don't see a point in dating ever again. Nobody wants me

Oh my god Brandie I am so sorry. I wish I could just give you a huge hug right now. Honestly, I just met you and you are one of the nicest and sweetest girls I have ever met. You don't meet people like that often. You are a BEAUTIFUL and wonderful girl. I'm not going to say there are other fish in the sea, because when you love someone like that, I know it's the last thing you want to hear. But whether or not you get back together, you will find someone. You are a magnificent girl and you are worth it. If you need me, please message me either here or on facebook. I'm here for you <3

[bluepotato1236]

Hugs..Be strong..You are not alone. If you need anyone to talk with, you can message me anytime...Be strong...

[NaNi]

I'm so sorry. I really wasn't expecting such a post. All the best to you. Stay strong. *big hug*

[Miramaid]

*hug*
The more I live the more I think that may be people who choose career over a relationship are the happy ones... At least they always have something to look forward to, to improve and see the results, $$ to travel etc...
Of course most of us here want a family and all that. I wish you the best with or without him. The good thing about it (even though it doesn't look like it is good right now) if he never loved you enough to want to spend the rest of his life with you, then it is better not to be with him and thank god you do not owe each other anything and do not have children.
Everything will be ok. Be strong! If he comes back begging you to try again think again and think hard, because you do not need someone who constantly changes his mind either.

[vpavelock]

You are an amazing with or without him, as much as it may not seem like it right now. Use this time to do things for yourself, no guilt, no worries or obligations. Just find a way to relax, find other joys in your life, and try as hard as you can to move it. I know it hurts but you just need to be strong. *hugs*

[mllebamako]

I was soooo sad and surprised to see this post. Stay strong Brandie. We're all here for you.

*huge hugs*

[Leigh]

I can't believe it. You were the perfect couple. I'm shocked he broke your heart. Please don't isolate yourself. We are here to listen.

[LovingHim]

I'm sorry to hear that really unexpected :/

[KatyCakes10]

I really hope you are doing okay. Everything will be fine in the end. If he broke up with you then he just didn't realize what he had.

[Brandie]

Thanks so much everyone, it means a lot to me that even though I'm single now you guys still support me. I didn't get any sleep last night, I woke up today to a puffy face since I've been crying all night and morning. I just feel so alone and I'm confused, and I can't help thinking it was me. Something I could've done better, maybe if I was thinner, maybe if I was more entertaining and exciting, idk. I feel like I was getting a kiss from him one minute and a slap in the face the next minute. I could have offered him so much, but now he has his own life without me. I was so good to him, I just don't see why I couldn't be a part of the changing process with him, he doesn't want me in his change or his future and that kills me. I thought he truly cared about me, and wanted me to be his princess and all his, and now he's free for anyone and I'm free for anyone, and he's ok with that. I don't get it. He couldn't see that I wanted him and only him this whole time, and that I want him in my future, but the feelings weren't the same for me. I feel so stupid and embarrassed. I have been telling him I love him so much lately, planning a next visit in a couple weeks, and telling you all how wonderful he is to me, then here now he doesn't even want me in his life anymore...