I'm not sure actually. We've not had a proper argument yet. The closest that I remember us being was one evening, we couldn't agree over something that was important to me. I said the conversation was upsetting me, and he said he wouldn't be able to sleep knowing I was upset. So we decided to calm down, stop right there and discuss it the next day.
I'm not really sure how a fight with him would look like. He doesn't argue, he sulks.
I think though, if it's a minor thing, make a break and then just continue with your communication routine as if nothing happened. If he acts sulky and brings it up again, apologise and say you'd like to put it behind you now.
If it's something bigger, make a break and leave it rest until the next day. It isn't easy going to sleep like that, but I'd honestly rather that than have him say, it's OK, when in reality it isn't. Chances are, during the break both of you will have thought about this with a relatively cool head and be more ready for compromise when you bring it up again.
I'm not really sure how a fight with him would look like. He doesn't argue, he sulks.
I think though, if it's a minor thing, make a break and then just continue with your communication routine as if nothing happened. If he acts sulky and brings it up again, apologise and say you'd like to put it behind you now.
If it's something bigger, make a break and leave it rest until the next day. It isn't easy going to sleep like that, but I'd honestly rather that than have him say, it's OK, when in reality it isn't. Chances are, during the break both of you will have thought about this with a relatively cool head and be more ready for compromise when you bring it up again.
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