Europe with my SO

[uniquefem]

Hi all! sorry haven't post for sometimes! i am still in Europe, well Stuttgart and now in Bavaria. So far my trip, visiting my SO went very well...
First i have doubt about him because he acting weird... i don't know what happens that time.
I did get my self ready for the worst case e.g he wont showed up to pick me up in the train station. I was the last passenger that go down from the train. It was a long journey from me from Indonesia to meet with this guy! its hard for me to walk out and see that he isn't there... so... i just let everyone goes out first.
Then i walk out there he is, standing with his hands on his waist, haha! first thing i notice he WORE the silly tshirt that i bought for him in Hongkong last time i met him!!!! he wore the silly tshirt said "someone who love me very much went to hongkong and bought me this tshirt!" hahahahhahahah
He wore it with a short, and i was laughing that i kneel down! i never saw him on his relax short its just funny, but not long he hugs me too tight, oh gosh!! what can i expect more???? he stood up there waiting for my train coming, he wore the silly tshirt, and he hug me tight!!!
I kiss him like crazy! hahah *blush*

So yes, so far everything went very well... on 2nd day we went to his apartment, hahah no secret girlfriend or secret things that he hide from me. I don't know why he said mean thing he said before. But... he is pretty normal guy (and i like him that way).

So far we traveling most part of South Europe with car together. We stop in a town if we think there is great things to see. He still the caring person and very understanding. He got new nickname for me, he called me TAMAGOTCHI. Just because i always bug him if i feel hungry (say "feed me feed me feed me") hehe because the food very different than Asia, in here you eat cheese and asparagus and called it lunch, in Asia i would love to eat rice with soup and chicken along with other dishes and thats lunch! hahaha i drop 2 kgs in 14 days, and he gain 2kgs at the same time somehow hahah!

Soon my visit will be over in 3 days.. i feel extremely sad... but i don't want to let him know that i feel so sad... i just want to enjoy this to the very end of it. I don't know when will i met him again... so.. yes.. i will make the best of it

Wishing you all have great time with your SO (in distance or not!) *hugs*

[Dziubka]

Man!
I meant to write you earlier *blush*
I'm so so so happy for you. Your visit sounds like a great experience and your guy seems really sweet
Enjoy the rest of your trip and make him visit you soon!

PS: Asparagus is about the single best thing you can serve on a plate. (Asparagus, potatoes and that mean cream cheese sauce = heaven on a plate)

[lucybelle]

Wow you guys are truly having a great time! I'm so happy that everything is working out well. Keep us updated

[Moon]

I'm really happy things ended up so well! Have a great rest of your trip and tell us all about it when you get back

[Riyko]

I'm glad things went well too and that in the end he decided to spend the trip with you and pick you up

[princessmeg1328]

I'm so glad that things ended up going so well! Keep us updated on your last couple of days there. I hope you have fantastic time!

[kteire]

PS: Asparagus is about the single best thing you can serve on a plate. (Asparagus, potatoes and that mean cream cheese sauce = heaven on a plate)

Agreed!!

But seriously, I'm so happy for you! That sounds like such a fun time

[uniquefem]

Man!
I meant to write you earlier *blush*
I'm so so so happy for you. Your visit sounds like a great experience and your guy seems really sweet
Enjoy the rest of your trip and make him visit you soon!

PS: Asparagus is about the single best thing you can serve on a plate. (Asparagus, potatoes and that mean cream cheese sauce = heaven on a plate)

Ohhhh yeessss.. haha he actually COOK me that! no guy ever cook for me (my dad did hahaha) he cook for me every single day, and made sure i always full (hehe good guy). Thank you so much for your msg by the way... really do appreciate it even if i can not made it to meet you when you met your SO the world seemed only for two i wish i do met anyone from here *hugs*

[uniquefem]

Man!
I meant to write you earlier *blush*
I'm so so so happy for you. Your visit sounds like a great experience and your guy seems really sweet
Enjoy the rest of your trip and make him visit you soon!

PS: Asparagus is about the single best thing you can serve on a plate. (Asparagus, potatoes and that mean cream cheese sauce = heaven on a plate)

Ohhhh yeessss.. haha he actually COOK me that! no guy ever cook for me (my dad did hahaha) he cook for me every single day, and made sure i always full (hehe good guy). Thank you so much for your msg by the way... really do appreciate it even if i can not made it to meet you when you met your SO the world seemed only for two i wish i do met anyone from here *hugs*

[blankita719]

I'm happy the trip is going so well. Thanks for the update

[uniquefem]

Ok update:

I just landed in Singapore. Last 14 hours ago it was heart wrenching good bye. I don't want to let him go, i swear i don't! hahah i could get crazy! my flight was depart in 40 mins and there i was hugging him in front of security check (i already check my luggage and get my boarding pass).

He said, be strong like you always do, but i weep like baby say i don't want to leave. And then he said this "i love you Rufika, please be strong because this is unfair" and i see his face he cried too haha i stood and stare that face, and i know how sad i was when he left me and the loneliness when i had to walk from his gate to my flight. I feel sad and i know he was sad too.. to i let go my hug, and wipe my tears.

This is the 2nd time i see him crying. And this is the guy i called ice berg cold guy. It must be hard for him to show so much emotions...and in public. So i know how sad it was for him. So i just give him very last kiss... and said we will meet again. I walk through security, and he still there, and until i go to the very last stair to my gate, he still there watching me. After last time waving at him i walk away, and gosh! i cried again! hahaha! i feel shy because i never do that when i said good bye with my mom or sisters! but it feels so hurt!

So we promise will meet again in 6 months.. but this time he will come to Indonesia! hope so!

I will try to made a blog of my trip.. here.. for first time too hehe! ohhh i also already post some of the pictures

Love you all guys! thanks for all support you've been giving me all the time....

[13000km]

Awhh, I'm sorry. Leaving is always the hardest. I remember when I left I had to tell him to walk away or else I wouldn't have been able to leave. I turned away for a second and he was gone.

On the bright side I'm so happy for you that you guys had such a great time together. I look forward to your blog and pictures!

-big hugs-

[uniquefem]

Awhh, I'm sorry. Leaving is always the hardest. I remember when I left I had to tell him to walk away or else I wouldn't have been able to leave. I turned away for a second and he was gone.

On the bright side I'm so happy for you that you guys had such a great time together. I look forward to your blog and pictures!

-big hugs-

Yes it was soo sad that i still feel the hurt in my chest to remind it.... i had no regret doing this at all, thats the best part... i feel happy, and loved, spoiled even! none love me the way he did!

[Élan]

I'm sorry it had to end but your trip sounds like fun! I bet you'll enjoy going back to Indonesian food, though! :P I'm anxious to read your blog about the trip.

[uniquefem]

I'm sorry it had to end but your trip sounds like fun! I bet you'll enjoy going back to Indonesian food, though! :P I'm anxious to read your blog about the trip.

glad you like it! i will post some more then!