Issues? Sure, there's plenty.
1) My mom is not very supportive of our relationship. In fact, she spends a lot of time trying to convince me how hard it's going to be, how I don't know him well enough to be in this kind of relationship, how she thinks we should be keeping our options open. Over time she's done less and less of this, but now she's supplementing all of that with talking about how he should move here (as if I have much of a choice on that one).
2) There is no easy answer. Aside from the moving away from our friends and family stuff, he has a steady job that he loves and would likely have to give up to move to be with me, and I struggle with the idea of moving to where he is because there's not a lot of job opportunities for me.
3) I should most likely be starting a masters in September 2012, and if I do our ability to see each other is seriously going to plummet. Most of our visits will probably end up being him coming out here for business trips, which means I'll be busy doing school stuff and he'll be busy doing work stuff and our time together will be limited.
I think we can make it work! Maybe. First step is getting him to talk about it, which is a struggle all on it's own.
1) My mom is not very supportive of our relationship. In fact, she spends a lot of time trying to convince me how hard it's going to be, how I don't know him well enough to be in this kind of relationship, how she thinks we should be keeping our options open. Over time she's done less and less of this, but now she's supplementing all of that with talking about how he should move here (as if I have much of a choice on that one).
2) There is no easy answer. Aside from the moving away from our friends and family stuff, he has a steady job that he loves and would likely have to give up to move to be with me, and I struggle with the idea of moving to where he is because there's not a lot of job opportunities for me.
3) I should most likely be starting a masters in September 2012, and if I do our ability to see each other is seriously going to plummet. Most of our visits will probably end up being him coming out here for business trips, which means I'll be busy doing school stuff and he'll be busy doing work stuff and our time together will be limited.
I think we can make it work! Maybe. First step is getting him to talk about it, which is a struggle all on it's own.
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