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    Physically, how much?

    How much time do you actually end up spending, physically, with your SO each year?
    In 2009 i spent about 63 days with my boyfriend, in total, while this year 20 days so far, and this summer other 60 days.

    It was kind of depressing to figure out that by the end of this year, I will have spent only one fourth of my time with him (a friend made me notice this earlier). So, how about you, How much time, out of the relationship, or this past year, have you physically spent together? Or by the end of this year, how much time will you have spent in each other's arms?

    Distance doesn't matter when two hearts are loyal to each other.

    #2
    We've been together about half of the time.

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      #3
      Think we were together around 90 days in 2010 (started dating from the end of March).
      2011 looks better... I can't count for the whole year. But, from January to the end of August it'll be around 95 days. (between August and December there'll probably be around 55 days extra.)
      So 2011 around 150 days. Maybe.
      We normally hope to be together around 35-40 % of the year.

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        #4
        In 2010 we were together about 60 days, and about 52 of those we were dating. And this year we've been together 16 days so far, but that number will double in 4 weeks!!


        Love will not betray you, dismay or enslave you, it will set you free

        Met: Cork, Ireland - December 31, 2009 • Started Dating: Cork, Ireland - May 22, 2010 • Became LD: July 15, 2010 • My Move From Canada to UK: October 26, 2011
        Closed the distance June 18, 2012!

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          #5
          Oh and by the end of the year, I'm not sure how much more time we'll have spent together, but I'd say it'll be closer to 80 days I am going to get to see him every weekend after I move to Scotland!


          Love will not betray you, dismay or enslave you, it will set you free

          Met: Cork, Ireland - December 31, 2009 • Started Dating: Cork, Ireland - May 22, 2010 • Became LD: July 15, 2010 • My Move From Canada to UK: October 26, 2011
          Closed the distance June 18, 2012!

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            #6
            since January we spent 35 days tog. & he'll be here the end of June, were also hoping to close the distance by the end of summer.

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              #7
              For the first few years, it was around 90 days a year, the fourth year I actually spent 6 months with him. Last year, I didn't see him at all, well, I did, but I left on the 20th or something of Jan. This year, I'll get to spend 6 months with him again. I can't wait.
              Together since: Feb 23rd 2005.
              First met: June 13th 2006

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                #8
                In 2009 we only spent like 20-30 days together :/ 2010 was a lot better! I think we spend about 40 % of the year together now. Yay for being able to move a little bit closer together!

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                  #9
                  None.

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                    #10
                    I've been with my SO almost 2 years and have only spent one day with him....kinda depressing

                    Notes:
                    Met: 8.17.09
                    Started Dating: 8.20.09
                    First Met: 10.2.10
                    Closed the Distance: 8.9.14

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                      #11
                      a month and a half this year for the first time, im very grateful and lucky tho that our visit isn't to short
                      I love you Nathan <3
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                        #12
                        2010 we spent 55 days together. This year has a total of 14 days... so far.
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                          #13
                          Back when we were long distance, we would spend less than 30 days together a year, spread out to 7 or 8 visits xD. Yeah, kinda scary now that I think about it. I moved 300 miles for a guy I'd only spend a total of roughly 60 days with him in person. Oh well, it works for us :P.

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                            #14
                            Somewhere it averages out to be 4 - 6 weeks a year, normally it's 4 because that's the vacation I have. He's in Finland though, so he gets something like 7 or so, so we've talked about him coming here even though I've got to work.
                            Our separation of each other is an optical illusion of consciousness. ~Albert Einstein

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                              #15
                              Originally posted by Darth_Taco View Post
                              Back when we were long distance, we would spend less than 30 days together a year, spread out to 7 or 8 visits xD. Yeah, kinda scary now that I think about it. I moved 300 miles for a guy I'd only spend a total of roughly 60 days with him in person. Oh well, it works for us :P.
                              Well, in the almost three years we've been 'dating', we spent about 23 days together (divided in two visits; six days the first and 17 days the second) and now we're closing the distance in August so we might be crazier. >.>

                              But, there's not much we can do about the money issue so we'll see how it works for us once we're together. :S

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