My SO and I used to talk non-stop when we first started dating. I'm talking about marathons. We'd watch movies together, then talk about the movie, we'd basically talk constantly (we don't shut up.. lol) for 15 hours on end.
Now, it feels like I'm trying really hard where he's not trying at all. When I set aside time to talk to him, he ends up making plans (while our Skype call is open I might add) and hanging out with his friends. He just walks away from his computer, makes plans, then comes back and says he's going to go to the mall, the movies, etc with his friends. And then when I'm out with friends, he's always calling me and asking when I'll be home so we can talk. In my head, I say "we could have talked when we were together earlier". I know a social life outside the LDR is really important, but I just want some time with him like it used to be.
Are we drifting apart? Or are we just in the midst of finding balance?
Now, it feels like I'm trying really hard where he's not trying at all. When I set aside time to talk to him, he ends up making plans (while our Skype call is open I might add) and hanging out with his friends. He just walks away from his computer, makes plans, then comes back and says he's going to go to the mall, the movies, etc with his friends. And then when I'm out with friends, he's always calling me and asking when I'll be home so we can talk. In my head, I say "we could have talked when we were together earlier". I know a social life outside the LDR is really important, but I just want some time with him like it used to be.
Are we drifting apart? Or are we just in the midst of finding balance?
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