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    #61
    My biggest fear ~ that he could wake up and just not love me anymore.
    Also I get worried about him as in his well being. Like he could get ran over, his house could blow up from a gas leak, he could be in a car accident, he could have fallen down the stairs and hit his head and died or fallen into a coma, the list is endless.

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      #62
      Well, he's told me that he's never had a crush on anyone IRL before and that barely anything happens in his town...

      All I'm afraid of is that my parents might not approve of our relationship, especially my mother.




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        #63
        That he will find someone better and not want me anymore.
        Or we just never ever get married and close the distance for good.

        Im only human, i cant wait forever.
        no one can ''/ no matter how much u love someone.
        The distance will eventually become to much.

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          #64
          For me, I worry most about being cheated on. Not that I think there is much of a possibility, but more so because I think it could be one of the most devastating things that could happen to me.

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            #65
            I worry that there will be the day I can't take the distance any more.
            I worry there will be the day he notices he doesnt want this relationship anymore and everything was for nothing.
            I worry that we'll grow apart.

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              #66
              I have a few, the biggest being that he will not pass main board and if he doesn't...we have no future since he has no college degree and I have lost faith in his ability to land ANY job

              I also worry he is too immature in a lot of ways to handle a girlfriend no matter a wife and kids when the time comes.

              I worry he is just crazy about me because he feels I am all he can get (silly man)

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                #67
                That the world may end or one or both of us might die before we can close the distance.
                I'm worried about not being able to move over there because of some law imposed against immigrants (the UK has been changing their immigration laws a lot lately). We tried to do it without marrying but it looks like we're going to have to get married. I'm worried I may be rushing him into marriage because of stupid laws.

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                  #68
                  I've had nightmares where he has died. I freak out and send him loooong texts about how he has to be safe, while I cry and calm myself down lol.

                  I also really worry about not closing the distance or one day that he might realize he just wants to meet someone else or he does.

                  Mostly I just worry so much that something could happen to him, he could get sick, hurt, and worst of all die.

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                    #69
                    Another accident and not being told ... my SO had a motorbike accident a couple of years ago when we were CD, going 60 miles an hour... unconscious laying on the tarmac... only wearing a bloody pair of jeans and a jacket! don't know how but only broke his wrist and got severe tarmac burns/scars over his knees and body and back.... the thing that scares me is that his family never told me, I found out when his grandparents thought I ought to know 5 hours after the accident when he had been unconscious in hospital... that's the one thing that scares me about his mother.. deep down she doesn't like ne and is rather manipulative over him and yeah I'm getting upset thinking about it. How can you be jealous of your SO mother? That's just wrong but that's how I feel especially from that incident now we are Ld that fear has only grown
                    !!
                    Scary times!!

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                      #70
                      him getting tired of the distance and finding someone closer or breaking up because of the distance.

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                        #71
                        The only thing I'm scared of sommmmmmetimes... is that everything was for nothing.. that we spend all this time and energy in this relationship and that it won't work and we 'lost' a big part of our youth for nothing.
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                          #72
                          Originally posted by Manoek View Post
                          The only thing I'm scared of sommmmmmetimes... is that everything was for nothing.. that we spend all this time and energy in this relationship and that it won't work and we 'lost' a big part of our youth for nothing.
                          I think this too, if it doesnt work out with us have I just wasted a year, well not wasted but you know what i mean.
                          Also I'm scared he finds someone else in the US it would positively break my heart. Another worry is if we do become CD, it would most probably have to me that moves to be with him, and I'm not sure if I could leave behind my family (especially my little brothers and sisters / everyone else I'm fine with haha)

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                            #73
                            Originally posted by t.hicks
                            I'm not really worried about any of the things you all are. I know he'll never leave me because I'm the best he'll ever have. I'm not worried about him getting into an accident - if he gets in an accident, it's his own fault, most likely. He's a big boy, he can take care of himself. I guess I am worried about whether I'm wasting my time. What if we close the distance and he isn't who I thought he was? Or worse, he isn't aware of how to act around high-class people, such as my coworkers, and such? Hmm...
                            Are you here just to screw with us? Seriously, I'm starting to wonder if you're just having fun saying things that you know will piss people off. (Which, hey, is something that I've been accused of! Oh, the irony...)

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                              #74
                              I'm not sure if she's here to poke people with a stick or if she actually means what she says... either way I think it's hilarious!!

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                                #75
                                Originally posted by CynicalQuixotic View Post
                                Are you here just to screw with us? Seriously, I'm starting to wonder if you're just having fun saying things that you know will piss people off. (Which, hey, is something that I've been accused of! Oh, the irony...)
                                Ugh, unfortunately, she actually means what she says. I'm so so so sorry I invited her to check the site out. I'm sorry!

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