Worried At Times?

[Leigh]

What is your greatest fear being in a LDR?

[Moon]

That we won't close the distance eventually, for whatever reasons.

[Jezah]

Mine has always been that he would meet somebody in his home country, and decide that the convenience made her a better choice. Now that we have admitted we are in love that has faded a bit, but it still nags in the back of my mind since we still have a long road before we close the distance for good

[Sora1101]

That he's gonna wake up someday and realize that he wants someone CD and doesn't wanna wait for me anymore.

[leonsfangirl]

I don't even want to type it, but if he was involved in an accident or something and he wasn't going to survive. I couldnt get to him fast enough.

[Moon]

I don't even want to type it, but if he was involved in an accident or something and he wasn't going to survive. I couldnt get to him fast enough.

Yeah, that too. I'd hope there was someone who'd think to contact me if something ever happened. I do worry about that.

[FadedSunrise]

Some freak accident happens and I'm kind of 6400 miles away. That he's going to realize CD is what he wants and will find someone else(although I wouldn't blame him for it at all).

ETA: I don't know that ANYONE would contact me if something bad happens...I don't know that anyone has the means to! His best friend and roommate recently got a girlfriend, so he's been rather AWOL. But even still I don't know that he has my number or anything like that...

[jennyjellybeans]

I fear that he'll find someone locally and lose interest me and I also fear him getting hurt and me not being there for him.

[Mara]

My greatest fear is that one day he will decide that he just can't do this long distance thing anymore. My second greatest fear is that one day I will decide that. Followed by of course the fear of him getting hurt or needing me and I can't be there.

[kteire]

I agree - an accident. My SO was recently almost in a bad accident - he was riding his bike home from judo, and a bunch of jerks drove past him and threw a massive rock out at him. It missed him by a few cms, and he said it hit and smashed up a car parked at the side of the road. I've been worrying a lot since then.

[aggie]

I don't know when I am going to see him next. I am scared that he's going to meet someone else locally. I don't know if my plan of closing the distance will work out. And it all makes me sick in my stomach (and head) right now.

[cybunny]

That we can't close the distance, or if I meet someone locally.

[meg]

Like everyone else, that he'll meet someone prettier, closer, or in his field of work.
My main fear is that he'll let his fear get the better of him, and end it before it's even began.
I worry I'm more into this than he is. I think he sees LDR as a 'warm up' for an actual relationship, whereas for me, this is it. I'm commited, I want this to be my last relationship.

[Snap]

Add me to the list of worriers regarding their SO finding someone else locally. I'm also worried that we won't be able to close the distance because a lot of that will be out of our hands when the opportunity arises a couple of years from now.

[kiara_silver]

Like everyone else said, that he will leave me and find someone closer, someone who isn't miles and miles away and hard to be with. That i won't be enough and he will let me go, i get so scared of this that im not enough and i always have to ask him to be mine always, its scary thinking about it. If he let me go idk what i would do.