I meant this one "Hey, I hope everything is okay and that you are healthy! How is school and work going? I just wanted to ask if we will ever be able to talk to each other or if you want me to leave you completely alone. I promise I won't message you back if you tell me that you want to be left alone. But know, that I am always here if you want to talk again! And I will always support you and help you, no matter what!"
If you visit her you're right, it will not be the same. It will be tough and you have to be prepared that she may not want to see you. You have to be prepared to let her go. But if you're there, in her town or city, for a couple of weeks, and she knows it, she may decide to pick up the phone, meet for a coffee, who knows. At least then you would be face to face even if the meeting is ultimately a break up.
It sounds to me like she has a lot on her plate right now and LDR is very stressful and difficult and maybe she just doesn't have the mental space for it right now. But you say she is your enemy now. What do you mean by that?
If you visit her you're right, it will not be the same. It will be tough and you have to be prepared that she may not want to see you. You have to be prepared to let her go. But if you're there, in her town or city, for a couple of weeks, and she knows it, she may decide to pick up the phone, meet for a coffee, who knows. At least then you would be face to face even if the meeting is ultimately a break up.
It sounds to me like she has a lot on her plate right now and LDR is very stressful and difficult and maybe she just doesn't have the mental space for it right now. But you say she is your enemy now. What do you mean by that?
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