I was just looking for a little advice from those of you who have been in similar situations.
One of the lifeguards I work with invited me to a hotel party this weekend. We'd all be staying in a hotel room and drinking together. Another one of the guests is a guy I had a summer fling with two years ago before I met my SO. I'm not sure how to feel about this. On one hand, I never had feelings for this guy. It was just sex and meant nothing. On the other hand, If my guy were in the same situation, I'd want to be told because it would make me upset if I found out later.
SO I'm debating telling him and how to tell him about it. I don't know how comfortable he would be with me staying in a hotel room, after drinking with a guy I used to sleep with. Also, how would you word that part? I asked mt male best friend ( who is going to the party as well) if I should tell my SO that a guy I used to see was going, but he said it would be better if I phrased it as a guy I used to sleep with. Saying it like that makes me feel super grimy ( because I'm a lot more experianced than my SO and he doesn't know my number)
Help please!
One of the lifeguards I work with invited me to a hotel party this weekend. We'd all be staying in a hotel room and drinking together. Another one of the guests is a guy I had a summer fling with two years ago before I met my SO. I'm not sure how to feel about this. On one hand, I never had feelings for this guy. It was just sex and meant nothing. On the other hand, If my guy were in the same situation, I'd want to be told because it would make me upset if I found out later.
SO I'm debating telling him and how to tell him about it. I don't know how comfortable he would be with me staying in a hotel room, after drinking with a guy I used to sleep with. Also, how would you word that part? I asked mt male best friend ( who is going to the party as well) if I should tell my SO that a guy I used to see was going, but he said it would be better if I phrased it as a guy I used to sleep with. Saying it like that makes me feel super grimy ( because I'm a lot more experianced than my SO and he doesn't know my number)
Help please!
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