Well maybe this belongs in RambleOn and as a rant. Do you expect more phone calls or conversation time than you get?
Its my Spring Break. The kiddies are in school so I'll still be teaching and what not, but not tomorrow. So I've had a few drinks. So maybe I'm getting more upset over this than a should. BUT...
We just had a really bad week a few weeks back. I was just emotional, stressed, and missing him more than ever. He was having one of those off weeks where he didn't message me as much or call as much. Which made for just a terrible week for me. But it got better. I wasn't so emotional, he realized his phone calls/texts were very important to me and he put a little more effort into it.
Well today. Easter. We got baskets. Mom even got him a chocolate bunny and stuff. My gift was a few of my fave chocolate candies and a metal pot. WHY a metal pot!? Not because I really wanted one or needed one.....no I would have much rathered clothes or money, but a pot so I can cook for him. I tried to cook rice and gravy (very common in South Louisiana), but he did not have the correct pot to cook it in. So it's more of a gift for me and him!
But I digress. Well 1) he went out last night and never called or texted to say he was back home. Considering he was the DD and supposedly not drinking this made me very worried. 2) when he finally answered he didn't talk much................BECAUSE HIS THROAT WAS DRY. Really?! What kind of lame excuse is that to not talk?! 3) He said he would call me later and webcam with me. I was missing him and wanted to see him and wanted to show him his gift and "our gift."
Well finally at a quarter to 11 I texted him and asked what he was doing. His repsonse "partying" REALLY?! Seriously?! WTF is wrong with you? No calls or texts AT ALL....ALL DAY since about 10am when you said you'd call me later.....why not?! bc you've been busy and are partying? Really?! idk what his problem is but he's just been really slacking lately. He's never been just so unthoughtful before. He's always been great about calling me and even (greatfully) texting me randomly throughout the day.
Well when I told him that I was assuming he would call before 11 and for that matter before 10 he quickly called me. He said "it's before 11" so my response was, unenthusiastically, "congratulations. 6 minutes before 11" We didn't even talk a full minute because he was talking to all the people at his house. He asked why I didn't say anything sooner about webcamming. REALLY!? I did. Last night when I texted and told you the whole family would like to webcam and give you your gift. [and[/U] this morning when you agreeded to webcam.
I'm pretty upset with him considering we have barely talked ll weekend. Maybe I'm just expecting a higher level of communication, more time to talk, etc than he is. Do any of you experience this?! Do you expect to talk to your SO earlier than they call, for a longer period of time, more often, and they just don't seem to think anything of it!?
Its my Spring Break. The kiddies are in school so I'll still be teaching and what not, but not tomorrow. So I've had a few drinks. So maybe I'm getting more upset over this than a should. BUT...
We just had a really bad week a few weeks back. I was just emotional, stressed, and missing him more than ever. He was having one of those off weeks where he didn't message me as much or call as much. Which made for just a terrible week for me. But it got better. I wasn't so emotional, he realized his phone calls/texts were very important to me and he put a little more effort into it.
Well today. Easter. We got baskets. Mom even got him a chocolate bunny and stuff. My gift was a few of my fave chocolate candies and a metal pot. WHY a metal pot!? Not because I really wanted one or needed one.....no I would have much rathered clothes or money, but a pot so I can cook for him. I tried to cook rice and gravy (very common in South Louisiana), but he did not have the correct pot to cook it in. So it's more of a gift for me and him!
But I digress. Well 1) he went out last night and never called or texted to say he was back home. Considering he was the DD and supposedly not drinking this made me very worried. 2) when he finally answered he didn't talk much................BECAUSE HIS THROAT WAS DRY. Really?! What kind of lame excuse is that to not talk?! 3) He said he would call me later and webcam with me. I was missing him and wanted to see him and wanted to show him his gift and "our gift."
Well finally at a quarter to 11 I texted him and asked what he was doing. His repsonse "partying" REALLY?! Seriously?! WTF is wrong with you? No calls or texts AT ALL....ALL DAY since about 10am when you said you'd call me later.....why not?! bc you've been busy and are partying? Really?! idk what his problem is but he's just been really slacking lately. He's never been just so unthoughtful before. He's always been great about calling me and even (greatfully) texting me randomly throughout the day.
Well when I told him that I was assuming he would call before 11 and for that matter before 10 he quickly called me. He said "it's before 11" so my response was, unenthusiastically, "congratulations. 6 minutes before 11" We didn't even talk a full minute because he was talking to all the people at his house. He asked why I didn't say anything sooner about webcamming. REALLY!? I did. Last night when I texted and told you the whole family would like to webcam and give you your gift. [and[/U] this morning when you agreeded to webcam.
I'm pretty upset with him considering we have barely talked ll weekend. Maybe I'm just expecting a higher level of communication, more time to talk, etc than he is. Do any of you experience this?! Do you expect to talk to your SO earlier than they call, for a longer period of time, more often, and they just don't seem to think anything of it!?
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