SO's tarot cards...no more me?

[Tanja]

Those so called 'psychics' often just tell things that are very vague and would be 'spot on' with anyone. They've been proved to be cheats and impostors time after time. I think it's a load of BS. NO ONE can predict the future. Your fate is in your own hands so don't worry

[leonsfangirl]

I believe some people have a higher sense of perception than others but ultimatly, your life is what YOU make it! This reading will only make a difference if you let it influence your decisions. Your SO's and your future is in your hands, not written in some cards.

[rori795]

I believe some people have a higher sense of perception than others but ultimatly, your life is what YOU make it! This reading will only make a difference if you let it influence your decisions. Your SO's and your future is in your hands, not written in some cards.

^^ This.
Although I've had interesting experiences in the past (you can't tell me that every psychic is a fake when I had one that knew I was a Recreational Therapist... i had no paraphernalia from my job on, and 90% of the population has no idea that it's even a profession...) , your life is ultimately what you make of it. Tarot cards are fun but you can't let the future of your relationship be decided by them.

[Moon]

The problem with tarot cards (or any other type of fortune telling) is that the reading then has the power to influence a believer. What I mean is, let's say you've been told you'll marry a dark haired guy who is a music teacher, the problem is you're dating an otherwise wonderful blonde accountant! If you put belief into that reading, the idea that your accountant isn't "The One" is subtly introduced to your thinking, which could ultimately end the relationship, as you search for the elusive music teacher.

This can be used to easily manipulate people who are maybe a little more naive or gullible, and the teller knows that, and that's where the danger can come into play.

[corde]

First I'd like to say that on the whole I live my life scientifically, if something is measurable it's real, otherwise it's just belief. That said, as I am always looking at the world around me I come across things like this and am curious, I learn what I can about a thing.

I've been reading the cards for about 17 years now, and the one thing I can tell you about them is that when you use them to look to the future, you do not get facts. You get markers and roadsigns. You get notifications and warnings. You can also get it completely wrong.

It is VERY difficult to remain objective, when reading about something or someone you are personally invested in, it doesnt mean the cards will fall any different, but as "reading" tarot is ALL about interpreting what is there, then know that if the pair of you want to make it work, then whether it will succeed or not has nothing to do with what the cards have said.

Hear what was said, take that on-board, and then do what you want to. You make your destiny.

[littleone]

They are open to interpretation by the reader and the receiver. Future can always be changed just by knowing something can change what you will do and what will happen. so tell em' to re-read the cards and they will change just a little bit every day you have effect on the now and future.

[Kay1994]

Almost every "magic" trick or psychic stuff I have ever seen has been explained one or the other way to me, I would never put anything into something like that, it sounds to me like what you mother told you later was a straight out lie, but that's just me, I don't know her, so I wouldn't know. Never believe things like that, unless they tell of good stuff. That's my opinion.