So what do I do?
My parents were really judgemental when it came to me and my SO back in the beginning, when we weren’t even official. He’s too old, LDRs never work, what are you thinking, etc. My mom made fun of me in front of people and yada yada, it was horrible. So I just stopped talking about him, went through all of this crap to avoid lying but let her believe he and I didn’t talk anymore.
She was downstairs, my dad and brother were gone, so I figured I would webcam with him. I went downstairs for something and she goes, “So. Who are you talking to?” I try to be casually evasive and she forces it out of me, so I have to say his name, which she knows, and she asks if this happens often, I say sometimes. I don’t know what to do. If I tell her we’re together, she’ll freak out and won’t let me be alone with him EVER again. And she’s going to tell my dad, and they’re going to question me, and I don’t want to lie to them, I can’t lie to them. I know for a fact they’re going to really start questioning and suspecting things; it’s happened in the past, it’ll happen now.
I just don’t know what to do. Everything was going great, they thought I liked whatever boy they thought I liked and they weren’t worried about it. But now, I have no idea. What do I do? I'm kind of freaking out right now. =/
My parents were really judgemental when it came to me and my SO back in the beginning, when we weren’t even official. He’s too old, LDRs never work, what are you thinking, etc. My mom made fun of me in front of people and yada yada, it was horrible. So I just stopped talking about him, went through all of this crap to avoid lying but let her believe he and I didn’t talk anymore.
She was downstairs, my dad and brother were gone, so I figured I would webcam with him. I went downstairs for something and she goes, “So. Who are you talking to?” I try to be casually evasive and she forces it out of me, so I have to say his name, which she knows, and she asks if this happens often, I say sometimes. I don’t know what to do. If I tell her we’re together, she’ll freak out and won’t let me be alone with him EVER again. And she’s going to tell my dad, and they’re going to question me, and I don’t want to lie to them, I can’t lie to them. I know for a fact they’re going to really start questioning and suspecting things; it’s happened in the past, it’ll happen now.
I just don’t know what to do. Everything was going great, they thought I liked whatever boy they thought I liked and they weren’t worried about it. But now, I have no idea. What do I do? I'm kind of freaking out right now. =/
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