Okay...so this is slightly odd to me... I've been planning, for months, to possible move to Edmonton, Alberta which is (unfortunately) about 3 hours away from where my boyfriend lives. However, I really like the idea of moving up to Canada and I know it'd be easier to get a job at a city center that has decent public transit. Last night, though, I was talking to him on video and telling him how I had filled out 11 applications that day (I finally got to turn them in earlier this afternoon when I commandeered my brother's car for a little) and one of them was for Build-A-Bear. On the application it asks whether you're legal to work in Canada, which I thought was pretty cool, so I brought it up to him, to which he responded, "Yeah, but the closest Build-A-Bear is in Edmonton."
...So, then he started talking about how he wished I'd move to his city. Well...they have basically no public transit system and I doubt I'd be able to find a job as easily there, especially considering that I don't have that much job experience. He seemed extremely disappointed by the fact that i didn't immediately agree and start planning to move there instead of Edmonton. The only way I'd be able to move to his city is if I moved in with him and that...kinda won't work at this point considering I have certain values that don't mesh with that idea. However, I have no car and if I moved to his city I'd have to have a car and I'd probably have to move in with him. A few months ago he was talking about how i shouldn't move to his city because he didn't know how long he'd be there and Edmonton has much better job opportunities. I mean, I guess I should take it as a compliment but...I really don't know what to do at this point. I guess I'm just confused...
...So, then he started talking about how he wished I'd move to his city. Well...they have basically no public transit system and I doubt I'd be able to find a job as easily there, especially considering that I don't have that much job experience. He seemed extremely disappointed by the fact that i didn't immediately agree and start planning to move there instead of Edmonton. The only way I'd be able to move to his city is if I moved in with him and that...kinda won't work at this point considering I have certain values that don't mesh with that idea. However, I have no car and if I moved to his city I'd have to have a car and I'd probably have to move in with him. A few months ago he was talking about how i shouldn't move to his city because he didn't know how long he'd be there and Edmonton has much better job opportunities. I mean, I guess I should take it as a compliment but...I really don't know what to do at this point. I guess I'm just confused...
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