What is your story??

[Sixx]

BJL_Sweetheart1109's story sounds like a perfect movie, so beautiful!!


When you met each other were you with someone else?
We both were single, but a week after we met I started dating someone.

How did you first meet?
We met on a dating website, I was just looking for new friends to chat with. Francesco sent me the first message introducing himself and we quickly moved to MSN and started talking many hours everyday, we just clicked from the very first moment. One week or so from that, a friend who I had been hanging out with, asked me out. In that moment I didn't really stop to think about my new online friend, I was aware that I really liked him, but didn't believe that LDR could work. When I told him what happened in my life those days, his heart dropped, but even though that, he was there for me. And we kept talking (not as much as we used to, because we both felt that the fact that I had someone "changed" it all, but never talked about that "change", we just knew it was there)
After a couple of months I ended my relationship (the guy just didn't care about me, and my feelings for Francesco obviously were there). So, the following weeks I had a pretty hard time, but with his daily talk and help, I got back on my feet.

We started talking more and more every day, texted anytime and started calling each other. Until one day he reminded me of something we talked about a while ago, he still had his plane ticket to come and meet me! (since we met we were always joking about when we'd see each other IN PERSON, even when I started dating the other guy, he was determined that he wanted to come and meet me, and one day he sent me his boarding pass to prove that he wasn't joking this time, I GOT SO HAPPY!)

So the day arrived and with a lot of effort (and lies from both parts to our parents, we just couldn’t and can’t tell them about it) we met in the airport! I was soooo nervous, and when I finally saw him I couldn't believe it, my heart jumped and I quickly ran to hug him


How did you come about telling your SO about your feelings for them?
It was on his three days visit. Since my break up, we knew everything was great between us again, but we never actually talked about feelings for each other (I think he never pushed that topic into the conversation because he was afraid I was still getting over my ex and I'd hurt). When I realized that he was leaving the next morning, and who knew when I'd get to see him again, I just couldn't keep it for myself anymore. We were on the train getting back from our day in Barcelona, we were listening to music and I started writing on my phone.
I wrote him that I thought he was awesome and how much I hate goodbyes, he answered that he'd love to stay with me, and so I told him my feelings for him. I know I'd regret it all my life if he left that day and didn't know about it. He answered out loud that he felt the same for me!!! but he didn't dare to tell me earlier just because he thought he'd ruin what we had if I only saw him as a good friend... anyway, and we kissed.

The next day he was leaving, so after struggling all night with my thoughts, I told him I was ready to get into a LDR with him.


When you first saw a picture of them did it feel like you've seen them before?
No, not really.
But when I first saw him in the airport, it felt like I had known him all my life, it just felt right.

[Inga]

When you met each other were you with someone else?
Yes, I was married. She wasn't with anyone.

How did you first meet?
I was on a trip to a convention in England in a huge hotel. I was with a friend, and my friend had made appointments with a few people she knew, amongst which my SO. When I first met my SO we clicked immediately. I had heard things about her through my friend and I imagined her different than she really was. I actually did not know if i would like this person lol. But I was so worng. It was such a sweet surprise because we clicked so well straight away and we hung out all weekend, there was just this great immediate connection. My relationship with my ex wasn't too bad, but we had difficulties and I wasn't happy. When I met my SO that weekend it was clear to me I had to get out of my relationship. I developped the biggest crush on my SO. I wasn't sure about her feelings, but I knew something special was going on.

How did you come about telling your SO about your feelings for them?
Two days after I got back home I told my SO I had fallen for her. She told me at that point she wanted to be friends, but II just had this feeling there was more to it. But I was crushed, because I just felt so good with her. We decided to stay friends, i just asked for a little bit of time to get some distance. Plus, I had to tell my ex about all this and make decisions in that relationship. So we didn't talk for a few days, but she was the one who broke the silence, texting me saying she needed to talk. I knew then she realized there was more than just friendship. One of the best texts I have ever gotten. I told my ex that I met someone and that i needed space. Well, the rest is history, I divorced and ever since that text me and my SO are together.

When you first saw a picture of them did it feel like you've seen them before?
Well I had met her, so yes, off course I had seen her before. But it was in some ways strange seeing her picture 2 or 3 weeks after we met... she looked kinda different, but even more beautiful than I remembered..

[Caitlin2009]

i love all these, here's another question. lol i know this happened with me but when we were just friends i would litterly pace the house and be very edgy and grumpy when she wasent online, and this was only when we were just friends and at the time i just thought the reason was she was an awesome friend that i liked to talk to, i actually still do that when shes taking awhile to get online. did that ever happen with you?

[Sixx]

i love all these, here's another question. lol i know this happened with me but when we were just friends i would litterly pace the house and be very edgy and grumpy when she wasent online, and this was only when we were just friends and at the time i just thought the reason was she was an awesome friend that i liked to talk to, i actually still do that when shes taking awhile to get online. did that ever happen with you?

YES! Hahah, that used to happen to me too. But now we're always texting so we know where we are in every moment, or we'll talk about the plans we have for the day.

[totalspiffage]

I love all these stories!!!

When you met each other were you with someone else?
I've never been with anyone before him.

How did you first meet?
Online, through this rather geeky music thing. We had a bunch of friends who would skype together everyday.

How did you come about telling your SO about your feelings for them?
Well, after a while of group skyping and reading his blog rather obsessively, I realized that I was in love with him, and at that point I hadn't seen his face. So I wrote a song for him, as a joke. Then our friends made a facebook group shipping us being together, again as a joke. Soon we began talking to one another alone on Skype/Msn. One day, we were talking and he said, "I think I love you." And the rest fell into place.

When you first saw a picture of them did it feel like you've seen them before?
No. But I knew I could love him. I loved him regardless of his physical appearance, but he's actually rather attractive, which I guess is a plus. XD I just love that I loved him without ever seeing him.

Also, yes, at the beginning of our solo talks, I was a complete wreck and vice versa when he wasn't on!!!

[kasia516]

My younger sister was studying in Wales for a year. She kept bugging me to visit her over the summer, so I found a ticket from Toronto to England for $9 bucks!! ($181 with tax!) and I went.
She lived in a house of all international students and there was a party my first night there that Tim and his friend came to. My sister was Tim's dance partner, and she also knew his friends/roommates very well. I'm a sucker for English accents, and they were the only english people there, so i stuck with them.
Tim has also finished uni and he went with us to Bath in the next two days. It was fun but i was very shy around him. My sister and I ended up spending the next two weeks with Tim and his friends. We went to a different beach each day, stargazed, we went to castles, bought a dingy and got stuck in the ocean to the point where a ski jet had to tow us back to shore!! and we had bbqs and bonfires on the beach! once lizi's lease ran out, we even moved in with Tim and his roommates because their other roommates had moved out and they had two extra rooms. we had the most amazing time! we cooked every meal together and watched movies and went to pubs and clubs!
then my sister and i had to leave, we were going to france for a week then to spain. we asked the boys to go with us but they didnt know yet if they would.
I liked tim a lot. and the more i got to know him, the more i thought we were perfect for each other. but still nothing happened between us, i thought i was just a friend to him, and he didnt try anything. he was VERY sad when we were leaving, but i thought he was sad because my sister was leaving, not me.
on the boat to france i told my sister i liked him. she said to get over him, because it was an "impossible" relationship.
In france he told us he was coming to spain with us! during my week in france i spoke to him for once for 30 min on facebook chat, he spent the whole 30 min at his desk on his knees cuz he didnt have a chair and didnt want to leave me to go get one!
then he came in spain but it was him, my sister and me. so nothing happened there either. i completely hid my feelings for him as i was trying to get over him.
then i made plans to go back to england while my sister stayed in france. this is where it finally started between us. we went clubbing one night with 3 other people. tim hated the club and wanted to go to another. so i agreed to go, but no one else wanted to. we went and it was amazing just the two us. for the last song we were completely alone on the dance floor. it was 4 am when we left and we took a taxi home. it passed our house so we walked back instead of paying more fare. it was an amazing walk and we passed by horses and went into a grass field, laid down on the grass and watched the stars (i loved star gazing because i live in toronto and never see the stars). we fell asleep there but i was too cold and wearing a dress so i kept feeling bugs on me. we stayed for about two hours then we went across the street to our house and went to sleep.
then we went to tims house. in oxford we rented a boat and tim taught me to punt by putting his arms around me in the typical movie way. our friend joked that we looked like lovebirds and took lots of pics of us like that then we never had alone time and it was 2 days before i had to go. we stayed up late watching a movie and our friend went to bed early. tim and i were alone on his couch and he told me FINALLY that he liked me. i told him that i liked him too and we talked about the long distance thing. we decided to try it. that day we left for london and 3 people were supposed to join us but they backed out and it was just the two of us so we didnt mind! i had the most amazing two days in london with him and then i left. i had no idea if it would work, but a month later he came to toronto for two weeks. its been almost 9 months now and its still as amazing as it was when we started.
sorry its so long, but i was in europe for 5 weeks so its a long story! kudos if you read the whole thing!

[Caitlin2009]

awww Kathy i liked that!!!

[antzgz]

When you met each other were you with someone else?
No, he is my first boyfriend.

How did you first meet?
We met on some kind of gay facebook, he added me because i'm spanish and he loves the language and loves my country, haha, at first he didn't say anything but a couple days after that he sent me a private message and we started to talk, that was around november of 2007.

How did you come about telling your SO about your feelings for them?
He sent me an email one night (next month it's going to be a year since that email), he told me that for the first time he talked with a friend about someone (me) that he didn't even know in person and that he couldn't stop thinking about him and he dindn't know what to do, he only said that even for the distance he knew that i was his best friend. I told him that i felt exactly the same. Later that month i started to plan my trip to visit him and meet him in person, and one night while i was there he told me that he loved me and that he knew it back then in may but he didn't want to sound like if he was crazy and he didn't want to scare me.. i told him that i loved him and that it was pretty obvious that i felt the same because i made one of the craziest things i've ever made in my life.. i went for the first time to the US by myself, right at the other side of the Atlantic only to meet him.

When you first saw a picture of them did it feel like you've seen them before?
No, it didn't. Actually i think that it was kind of wierd when i first saw a picture of him, haha.

p.s. sorry for my english

[Alisz]

Alis your ex sounds like mine :/ wonder if there related lol

lol I hope not. I shudder to think that there could be another person like him out there. He really was a piece of work... I still can't believe I stayed with him as long as I did (just over 2 years) and put up with his inane BS. That girl thing was just the tip of it all. -_-;; My last 2 exes were pretty horribad. I suppose I appreciate Ray a lot more because of all that tho ^^

i love all these, here's another question. lol i know this happened with me but when we were just friends i would litterly pace the house and be very edgy and grumpy when she wasent online, and this was only when we were just friends and at the time i just thought the reason was she was an awesome friend that i liked to talk to, i actually still do that when shes taking awhile to get online. did that ever happen with you?

At first when we were just friends and texting each other, not really. I did look forward to talking with him, but I didn't feel anxious when he wasn't available. After we spent more time together online, I did, but then there really wasn't much time we weren't spending together XD He's fortunate enough to able to talk online while at work (obviously he goes afk a lot) and the only real time we spent apart was/is a few hours after work he spends with his family. But was I ever anxious for him to get home the night I wanted to confess to him ^^;; He was actually out, so I had to wait even longer than usual. I was like that person you see in movies trying to find the right words to say in the mirror, except minus the mirror and instead sitting in-game on a the mast of a ship hehe

[Caitlin2009]

lol I hope not. I shudder to think that there could be another person like him out there. He really was a piece of work... I still can't believe I stayed with him as long as I did (just over 2 years) and put up with his inane BS. That girl thing was just the tip of it all. -_-;; My last 2 exes were pretty horribad. I suppose I appreciate Ray a lot more because of all that tho ^^



At first when we were just friends and texting each other, not really. I did look forward to talking with him, but I didn't feel anxious when he wasn't available. After we spent more time together online, I did, but then there really wasn't much time we weren't spending together XD He's fortunate enough to able to talk online while at work (obviously he goes afk a lot) and the only real time we spent apart was/is a few hours after work he spends with his family. But was I ever anxious for him to get home the night I wanted to confess to him ^^;; He was actually out, so I had to wait even longer than usual. I was like that person you see in movies trying to find the right words to say in the mirror, except minus the mirror and instead sitting in-game on a the mast of a ship hehe

sadly there are many people like our ex's....i came to learn after i broke up with him that he was with several woman and guys as well *rubs temples* i am damn lucky i didnt get a sexually transmitted disease. so many things finally became clear when i booted him out of my life. And my girl actually helped me boot him out,she knew about him she knew how he treated me and what he was like, so with her help i got him out of my life for good

[Alisz]

sadly there are many people like our ex's....i came to learn after i broke up with him that he was with several woman and guys as well *rubs temples* i am damn lucky i didnt get a sexually transmitted disease. so many things finally became clear when i booted him out of my life. And my girl actually helped me boot him out,she knew about him she knew how he treated me and what he was like, so with her help i got him out of my life for good

I'm glad to hear it ^^ Ray helped me too. They were only friends for a couple months, but after hearing my side of things he could see for himself how he treated me when I was around. He was very disrespectful. I should have seen the signs earlier. I mean, within the first year of the relationship he'd been sneaking off to see his ex and try to "start something up again." WTF. I didn't know until he tried to contact me to tell me his "best friend" had died. I comforted him even tho he was angry with me for "not being sensitive enough." o_O I didn't say a word about the fact he'd never mentioned her before. Then he tells me the story that they broke up cuz he moved away and now that he had wheels he was trying to get back together with her, but since she didn't want to he kept it to himself. Who does that?? A year later I find out about a co-worker he was flirting up and trying to date. Apparently she was "a bitch". But it's like, who else have you tried to get with and struck out while we were dating? Ugh. Good riddance to him. Ray stopped talking to him first. My ex said it was my fault and I followed his lead and cut contact. He tried to talk to me a few months later (again wtf), but I was happily enjoying my time with Ray. I haven't heard from him since. Best move ever lol

[BJL_Sweetheart1109]

BJL_Sweetheart1109's story sounds like a perfect movie, so beautiful!![/B]

I know right?! When I left I called my friend and told her "It was like a movie! It couldn't have been more perfect if we talked about it and planned it!! This is definitely the one...." lol I just love our story bc we really couldn't have planned it better than that...its just too good.

i love all these, here's another question. lol i know this happened with me but when we were just friends i would litterly pace the house and be very edgy and grumpy when she wasent online, and this was only when we were just friends and at the time i just thought the reason was she was an awesome friend that i liked to talk to, i actually still do that when shes taking awhile to get online. did that ever happen with you?

I always get real anxious if I'm waiting for the SO. I'll get really grumpy if he waits until way late to call me. I can't help it, I love him and if we were CDR we'd probably be with one another, but we're not, so I want that phone call. I get all anxious and pace around the house when he's here or I'm there too though waiting for him to get off work.....so I guess its all the same thing.

[Caitlin2009]

I'm glad to hear it ^^ Ray helped me too. They were only friends for a couple months, but after hearing my side of things he could see for himself how he treated me when I was around. He was very disrespectful. I should have seen the signs earlier. I mean, within the first year of the relationship he'd been sneaking off to see his ex and try to "start something up again." WTF. I didn't know until he tried to contact me to tell me his "best friend" had died. I comforted him even tho he was angry with me for "not being sensitive enough." o_O I didn't say a word about the fact he'd never mentioned her before. Then he tells me the story that they broke up cuz he moved away and now that he had wheels he was trying to get back together with her, but since she didn't want to he kept it to himself. Who does that?? A year later I find out about a co-worker he was flirting up and trying to date. Apparently she was "a bitch". But it's like, who else have you tried to get with and struck out while we were dating? Ugh. Good riddance to him. Ray stopped talking to him first. My ex said it was my fault and I followed his lead and cut contact. He tried to talk to me a few months later (again wtf), but I was happily enjoying my time with Ray. I haven't heard from him since. Best move ever lol

Wow! serously i swear your ex and my ex are related lol, just certain things that i think back now on like i found a whole suitcase of condoms under his bed and we never used them mainly because well....i was kinda allergic to certain things....which prevented me from getting pregnant anytime we had sex, he told me they were for himself when he was alone....riighhhht......few years later he gets himself fixed knowing that im still allergic i was like O_o okaaay you dont need to but alright. In all the time we were in a relationship i never trusted him because i knew he was doing something, he always denied it but I knew something was up. Anytime anybody would try something on him he woudl tell me like "Oh she tried to kiss me, she wants me" ect ect and i would tell him to tell whoever to back off and he would say "Nooo i dont wanna do that im too nice, dont wanna hurt there feelings" i kept wondering why the hell he would never let me confront them anytime they tried to do something, its because he was trying to do stuff with them! I should have listened to the people that told me they saw him do that, or say this to someone but i didnt *sighs*after awhile he met a girl and they became good friends and i notice she had a ring on her finger one day he told me that it was a friendship ring, i broke up with him completely a week later and she told me it was a engagement ring O_o wtf? lol come to learn he was dating her and trying to do sexual stuff with her as well....i was dating Denise at the time and even then i was still hurt and pissed off. long story short he was still emotionally abusive to me even as friends so i told him one day that i cant be friends with him anymore, the day before he moved out he decided to have a go at me telling me i was fat(this was coming from a person who told me i was beautiful at one point) and just saying a hell of alot of bullshit to hurt my feelings, i told Denise all that lol wow was she pissed, took me a few minutes to calm her down. So after a few months he decided to IM me and to quote him "apologize for all the stuff i did to you in the past" which to me was an admission of guilt for all the things that i kinda already knew, he kept telling me he had changed and wanted to be friends with me and i pretty much told him to fuck off lol, i didnt need him to survive ect and he decided to guilt trip me by saying "oh i guesse only one of us is an adult to forgive then" Yeaaah you changed alright noottt! i blocked him, then saw him again while going to work one day arrg i wanted to vomit all over him, then a few days later he tried to call me O_o i had to disconnect my home phone service so he wouldnt do that anymore.


sorry going off topic a bit lol my apologies

[Bluestars]

When you met each other were you with someone else?
No, but I had been dumped by my ex-boyfriend only a week before when we started talking. I was upset for around two days about it but we had only gone out for a month so it wasn't a huge deal. I realized that he was a jerk (to put it nicely) and that I deserved better! He had broken up with his ex over a year before, but he was still hurt by her when we first started talking.

How did you first meet?
A little over a year ago, my best friend at the time and I joined a dating site called OkCupid because we were bored and wanted to see who the site would match us up with. While it initially began as a joke, but somehow we both got really into it and started talking to people. A week after a joined, I got a message from this gorgeous boy who said, "I see that you like the band Of Montreal! Kudos!" I responded, and for two weeks we emailed each other back and forth. After two weeks, we started talking on AIM daily, and slowly I came to develop a huge crush on Jared....however, he was over 800 miles apart. Soon, we progressed to talking on the phone every night for hours on end, and although we flirted and it was obvious that we both liked each other, we didn't think it would work because of the distance (and the fact that we had never met in person).

However, Jared was going to visit his twin sister in Tennessee for Spring Break that year, and one of the days he was driving to North Carolina to see Ladytron in concert with an old friend. At the last minute, the girl told Jared that she couldn't go to the show. Jared sent me a text saying that he couldn't see the show anymore, and I immediately told him that I would go with him since it was only a two hour drive from my college. Honestly, I had never listened to the band, but I was dying to meet him in person. The only condition was that Jared told me I had to bring a friend with me. On April 17, 2009, we finally met in person, and although it was awkward at first, we soon became just as comfortable as we were far apart. The entire day, we both worried that the other person liked us, and that night, Jared and I shared our first kiss! The next day, he asked me to be his girlfriend, and we have been together ever since

How did you come about telling your SO about your feelings for them?
Well, for a while on the phone before we had met each other in person we would both say, "I like you." However, we really confessed to one another when he asked me out

When you first saw a picture of them did it feel like you've seen them before?
No...I thought he was extremely hot and I was extremely attracted to him. He is completely my "type"

[threecheers9980]

When you met each other were you with someone else?
Nope.

How did you first meet?
We met through an online game called CyberNations. We were in the same alliance and he had posted a link to a game called Fallen Sword in the alliance forum and was looking for people to play the game with him. Despite being in the same alliance with him, we had never talked or interacted or anything. I started playing it with him and through that game, we started talking and he asked for my Yahoo Messenger screen name and we started chatting. We were friends for about 2-3 years before becoming a couple.

How did you come about telling your SO about your feelings for them?
I think he was the one that told me he had feelings for me and then I admitted I had feelings for him.

When you first saw a picture of them did it feel like you've seen them before?
Nope.