Sorry this is a bit long! I just felt details were important.
My girlfriend and I have been dating since December of 2009. I've recently turned 20 years old and she's 22. We have yet to meet in person due to a series of unfortunate events of my part and me having literally no money. We started out on Myspace/AIM where we were introduced by two mutual real life personal friends who were dating. Since then we've moved to Tumblr and Facebook and she used to write with me on LiveJournal but she stopped. Anyways, early in the beginning of our relationship she told me that she thought I was too attractive? and... made up her mind that I was an internet fake? Which is strange to me because we met through two friends who were dating. but anyways, I had two of my personal friends meet her in person thinking that would squash this strange thought, but it didn't. Since then she's seen over 100 pictures of me, I have approximately 76 tagged pictures on facebook with friends, she's seen countless videos of me and my friends, I've made "proof signs." and it just seems regardless of what I do, she's still telling her friends "oh I've met this great guy through so and so, but he could be an internet fake so I might dump him" or "oh, this is my imaginary boyfriend" that hurts a lot. I've tried to webcam with her, we both made Oovoo accounts, Skype, etc., but at the moment I'm... I guess homeless, would be the right term? and the only way I can cam with her is if I go to a clients house that I'm close to (I do freelance art to get home to her) but whenever I can cam with her she can't and when I can't go over to his house to cam because of our 3 hour time difference she has a fit and starts a fight and I'm rather passive so I just let her say what she needs to say, regardless of how hurtful, then she won't talk to me for a day or two afterwards and it's effecting me in such a way that now I am afraid to upload pictures to my facebook and Tumblr, because whenever I do, she comments on it, but then texts me freaking out all pissed off. Her friends want to kick my ass when i make it home to see her because of the things she says about me, one guy even wanted to trace my ip address?! I just don't know what to do... my friends don't like her because of that reason and multiple others but i don't care... I feel if they were really friends they would stick by my regardless of my decision. Does anyone else have a problem like this though? Can anyone offer advice? This issue is making me feel like she may not love me like she says she does, because how can she love me, if she doesn't even believe I even exist...
My girlfriend and I have been dating since December of 2009. I've recently turned 20 years old and she's 22. We have yet to meet in person due to a series of unfortunate events of my part and me having literally no money. We started out on Myspace/AIM where we were introduced by two mutual real life personal friends who were dating. Since then we've moved to Tumblr and Facebook and she used to write with me on LiveJournal but she stopped. Anyways, early in the beginning of our relationship she told me that she thought I was too attractive? and... made up her mind that I was an internet fake? Which is strange to me because we met through two friends who were dating. but anyways, I had two of my personal friends meet her in person thinking that would squash this strange thought, but it didn't. Since then she's seen over 100 pictures of me, I have approximately 76 tagged pictures on facebook with friends, she's seen countless videos of me and my friends, I've made "proof signs." and it just seems regardless of what I do, she's still telling her friends "oh I've met this great guy through so and so, but he could be an internet fake so I might dump him" or "oh, this is my imaginary boyfriend" that hurts a lot. I've tried to webcam with her, we both made Oovoo accounts, Skype, etc., but at the moment I'm... I guess homeless, would be the right term? and the only way I can cam with her is if I go to a clients house that I'm close to (I do freelance art to get home to her) but whenever I can cam with her she can't and when I can't go over to his house to cam because of our 3 hour time difference she has a fit and starts a fight and I'm rather passive so I just let her say what she needs to say, regardless of how hurtful, then she won't talk to me for a day or two afterwards and it's effecting me in such a way that now I am afraid to upload pictures to my facebook and Tumblr, because whenever I do, she comments on it, but then texts me freaking out all pissed off. Her friends want to kick my ass when i make it home to see her because of the things she says about me, one guy even wanted to trace my ip address?! I just don't know what to do... my friends don't like her because of that reason and multiple others but i don't care... I feel if they were really friends they would stick by my regardless of my decision. Does anyone else have a problem like this though? Can anyone offer advice? This issue is making me feel like she may not love me like she says she does, because how can she love me, if she doesn't even believe I even exist...
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