Rane leaves for Vancouver in 16 days. His medical is in 17 days. And then, his final immigration interview is in 18 days on April 29th.
We started the K1 fiance visa process on 1.8.10.
We've worked so hard. It's already cost us close to $2k (and we both work in retail, so this was not easy). We've put months into the paperwork (this includes time before sending in the petition).
So far, everything has gone so smoothly, so fast, so well. My petition was approved in 52 days when the expected wait time is five months.
But now here we are, just over two weeks away from our final answer. I don't even know what to do with my thoughts. ONE PERSON is going to decide our fate. If he moves here in one month and four days. Or if we are back to square one.
I know that we have done the best we can do. I am just so scared that our best isn't enough.
I know that no one has a crystal ball and can say oh, you guys will make it. I guess I just wanted to get this out, because I am going crazy. This is actually a very short wait time for the interview, but time is passing so slowly, omg. This is mentally the hardest part of the whole process for me. I knew I could do a good job on the paperwork on my end. I knew Rane would sail through his paperwork. But now we are dealing with an immigration officer, and that is a whole lot harder than making sure you complete a packet properly.
I have total faith in Rane at the interview. He will nail it. But we could still be denied. Maybe the person is having a bad day, and decides our age difference is too much. Could be anything.
I seriously do not know what to do with myself. I want to get my house ready for him... after all he would be moving two weeks after the interview and there is a lot to do! I've done some, maybe I should do more, keep myself busy.
Mentally, do I get excited because we seemingly have a really good shot? Do I expect the worst so I don't get crushed? Do I pretend it isn't even happening and try to not let it in my head?
Anyone have any thoughts on how to get through these last two(ish) weeks?
We started the K1 fiance visa process on 1.8.10.
We've worked so hard. It's already cost us close to $2k (and we both work in retail, so this was not easy). We've put months into the paperwork (this includes time before sending in the petition).
So far, everything has gone so smoothly, so fast, so well. My petition was approved in 52 days when the expected wait time is five months.
But now here we are, just over two weeks away from our final answer. I don't even know what to do with my thoughts. ONE PERSON is going to decide our fate. If he moves here in one month and four days. Or if we are back to square one.
I know that we have done the best we can do. I am just so scared that our best isn't enough.
I know that no one has a crystal ball and can say oh, you guys will make it. I guess I just wanted to get this out, because I am going crazy. This is actually a very short wait time for the interview, but time is passing so slowly, omg. This is mentally the hardest part of the whole process for me. I knew I could do a good job on the paperwork on my end. I knew Rane would sail through his paperwork. But now we are dealing with an immigration officer, and that is a whole lot harder than making sure you complete a packet properly.
I have total faith in Rane at the interview. He will nail it. But we could still be denied. Maybe the person is having a bad day, and decides our age difference is too much. Could be anything.
I seriously do not know what to do with myself. I want to get my house ready for him... after all he would be moving two weeks after the interview and there is a lot to do! I've done some, maybe I should do more, keep myself busy.
Mentally, do I get excited because we seemingly have a really good shot? Do I expect the worst so I don't get crushed? Do I pretend it isn't even happening and try to not let it in my head?
Anyone have any thoughts on how to get through these last two(ish) weeks?
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