Great Article on dealing with insecurity issues

[LeilaniJoi]

I realize this article was written more for the CD relationships, but I thought a good bit of it would apply in LDR as well. I found alot of good advice in it as insecurity is something I struggle with almost daily.

https://www.uncommonhelp.me/articles...relationships/

[Natyliz]

Excellent article. I suffer alot from insecurity and am even afraid that it will be the downfall of our relationship one day. I really hope not though, I hope I can work through it and we will be ok. Thanks for the article!

[leonsfangirl]

Thanks for sharing, it's a great article.

[LeilaniJoi]

It really helped me alot. I actually wrote down the key points, laminated them and stuck them in my wallet to help when I'm feeling insecure. If anyone ever needs to talk about it feel free to pm me. I struggle with them daily but am getting better and better each day. It's a constant thing with me and I don't want to run my guy away - this really helped me alot.

[Zephii]

Thank you for sharing

[books]

Great article, thanks for posting. It's funny...I've never really thought of myself as an insecure person- most people who know me would say I'm very strong, independent & confident. In my relationship though, it's a whole differerent story. One of the quotes listed at the top- "This is too good to last" is so me. My SO is a really sweet, genuine, good person who treats me great and it's like in the back of my head I'm convinced it's all going to end terribly. The only reason I can really pinpoint for this is that my ex really messed with my head, so I think I need to work on completing purging him from my system!

[HollzHeartsChris]

Brilliant article!

[LeilaniJoi]

books - those that know me would describe me the same way. With past relationships I have walled such a big part of myself off I never felt insecure because I wasn't really that vested in the whole thing. I'd say that was a big part of the problem and maybe it was part of it, but the bigger part was his unwillingness to work and hold a job. In any case, with my current relationship I got my legs taken out from under me and I fell hard and deep. I'm happy with that, but I have so much invested the insecurities come out because I want it to work so badly.

Fwiw it is working quite well, I have this battle with myself and it's just something I have to get through. This article helped me tons. Glad it was helpful to others as well.