Would you?

[MadMolly]

I'm not in a relationship but I have an online romance going on. Haven't met him yet; going to Canada next month to see him. At this point if I wasn't going there yeah I'd walk away pretty soon and after we meet I still don't know if I want a relationship. Might just have a fling with him and call it a day :P

[xBeliever]

i feel your pain..

[iamangel]

No. Even it's hard and there's no many complications I still didn't think to give up.

[leonsfangirl]

No

My SO and i have been through so much to get to this point and there is no way i could walk away from him now. There's nothing we can't handle, we're both commited to this relationship and above all we love each other like crazy.

[rivi87]

No...cannot do that...would not do that...we have now made the ultimate commitment to eachother and it's going to be hard but we are going to get through it

[pytsip]

When we were long distance I will admit that there were a few times when I wondered if I could do it. But honestly, the actual consideration of it never got passed that, because I realized that it was stupid, I would either be broken up with him, and just waiting for him to return so that I could be with him again, or I could at least enjoy the little time that I spent with him on skype and on the internet and still just wait for him to return. Honestly, he is the guy for me, and the thought of being with someone else is beyond my realm of cognition, so I thought that even though it sucked being away from him, that it would be entirely pointless to not be with him.

[lucybelle]

Yup. I told my SO, 3 years max. That's all I could handle LD. We closed the distance after almost 2 years

[heylittlekrissy]

I did, once. Stupid mistake on my part. It took him a long time to convince me to trust him enough to be in an LDR together, that it could work. He really liked me, and I really liked him, although I wouldn't admit it at first (we've never met in person, so the whole LDR/online dating thing scare me). I finally admitted it and decided to give it a chance (that was the end of last year), but after a month or two I broke down and told him I couldn't do it. I know I hurt him, but I just didn't feel I could handle it. After I did that though, we stayed close friends, and I really started to realize what I was missing out on. Things just felt.... different, than when we'd been just friends previously, and I realized it was even worse that way. It got to the point I'd cry anytime it got brought up, because I felt so stupid for breaking up with him, because I didn't want to live without him, but he was hurt, so it took him some time to trust me again enough to give it another try.
He finally asked me back out one day, and I said yes, no questions asked, and that was one of the happiest days of my life (and there have been many since then). Yes, it gets hard; Yes, I would rather be with him in person, but we can't do that right now, and we understand that. We're working on it though, finding a way to be together. I know I still have my days where I feel like I can't do it anymore, but when I think about being without him, I would be broken without him at this point. He's my best friend, yes, but he's also my first and only love, and I just couldn't imagine living another day without knowing he's mine, no matter how far away he is.

[loveknowsnodistance27]

Never in a million years. I know it's tough now (and I'm really struggling now because we're about to resume distance again tomorrow) but I know he's going to school where he is because it's the best school for him and he's building a future for us one day. This is only temporary, though it will total about 6 or 7 years total LD, but we've gotten through 1 year already so that's only 5 or 6 more. I'm so in love with my boyfriend and he is the most important person to me so I would never ever give up because I love him that much. I told him I'd only ever do LD for him, and he was so honored. We're perfect for each other, and we both know we can be strong and get through this. One day, when we're living CD forever, all of this distance will just be a memory and will really strengthen our relationship in the end. This has to be a blessing in disguise.

[hxcbreakdance]

Nope, but I do occasionally have those days where I wonder if LD is for me but then I go back to how great my SO is and then I know that we can do this and it will all be worth it in the end.

[Sierra]

Yes, I would. This is not a situation I'm willing to be in indefinitely. If we can't close the distance before too much time has passed I'll be forced to move on. My boyfriend is special and so is our relationship which is why we are willing to endure this in the first place, but this is a temporary situation, not a long term one.
As adults there's really very little reason why we wouldn't be able to close the distance within a reasonable period of time.

[Leigh]

I wouldn't give up on the LDR because that would mean giving him up. I would never do that even as hard as it has been because he is my only true love.

[ClipitsWings]

Nup. Technically, only if to be CD with him, but between the way wefeel about eachother, the romantic flair of this, and my awkwardess irl, no. I couldn't give my sweetheart up if I had to. Not at this point. (I'm a little bit proud of this considering it's taking me one of the longer amounts of time even for a first meeting, from what I've seen)

[Kerry]

I would in a heartbeat if the deal breakers came into play. there are a few things that would force me to end my LDR permanently.

[Chris'_Princess]

There have been times when I have doubted my relationship, but in the long run it is worth it. We have had our ups and downs, but I can't wait to close the distance and spend our days together again!!!