My boyfriend and I usually see each other every six months and the next trip will be this winter (probably January). We both work and I'm in school so money is a little tight. We're trying to save and he would like to move here in January, but that is still a HUGE maybe.
Lately, we've been kind of frustrated with the distance. Him more so than myself. He's been really frustrated that we don't feel close at the moment and he misses me. As I was thinking about our recent issue this morning, I wondered if maybe we should plan to see each other for a weekend. It's about $350 for him to come visit for four days. I would most likely be the one paying for everything since he has very little money.
I feel stuck. I want to do a small trip like this so we can see each other and be reminded of what we're waiting for, but at the same time I know saving money is important right now. Any advice? What are your experiences with this kind of thing?
I do plan on bringing it up to him when he gets home from work...
Lately, we've been kind of frustrated with the distance. Him more so than myself. He's been really frustrated that we don't feel close at the moment and he misses me. As I was thinking about our recent issue this morning, I wondered if maybe we should plan to see each other for a weekend. It's about $350 for him to come visit for four days. I would most likely be the one paying for everything since he has very little money.
I feel stuck. I want to do a small trip like this so we can see each other and be reminded of what we're waiting for, but at the same time I know saving money is important right now. Any advice? What are your experiences with this kind of thing?
I do plan on bringing it up to him when he gets home from work...
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