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hey i need money and i'm trying to get a job but i need enough money for christmas to go see her, if anyone wants to donate to the "i'm despereately trying to see someone i love" fund, then let me know
lol aww. Sorry wish i could help. Im in the same boat, have 7 months to some how make enough to go to Scotland for 6 months. So best of luck to you and to everyone else trying to save up!
Well, I currently have the "I'm moving across the ocean to be with my SO fund" so none from me, sorry!
I'm guessing most people here would want their money to go towards seeing their own SOs.
Love will not betray you, dismay or enslave you, it will set you free █♥█ Met: Cork, Ireland - December 31, 2009 • Started Dating: Cork, Ireland - May 22, 2010 • Became LD: July 15, 2010 • My Move From Canada to UK: October 26, 2011
Closed the distance June 18, 2012!
Are you able to do odd jobs? Depending on where you live, with it being summer (I'm in California, so we have sun pretty well through October. I realise not everywhere shares the same fortune), you could see if your neighbours or people around your area need help with the necessary jobs that no one likes to do: mowing lawns, pool cleaning, yardwork, etc. If you live at home, you could see if there's any work your parents, relatives, or friends of family need done that they'd be willing to pay you some money for. You could consider babysitting for people after school; if you have a car, you have the advantage of saving kids having to take the bus and parents the hassle of arranging someone to pick their children up from school every day, or having to do it themselves. You could do pet sitting, dog walking... With school starting up, if you have an academic strength, you could consider tutoring. And of course, penny pinch... Oh, and apply everywhere.
But other than that, like others have said, I think everyone here is in the same boat, but good luck getting to see your SO! :]
Our Beginning
Met online: February 2009
Feelings confessed: December 2010
Unofficially together since: January/February 2011
Officially together since: 08 April 2011
Our Story
First meeting in person: 16 August - 14 September 2011
Second visit: 17 March - 01 April 2012
Third visit: 23 July - 13 September 2012
Fourth visit: Looking at 23 March - 6 April 2013
Probably because you're soliciting for money, and this isn't the place for that.
Like others have said, money is an issue for anyone in a LDR and people want to spend theirs to see their own SOs. If you need money, work for it.
Can't answer for the owners of LFaD, but as someone who used to be a mod at a busy forum, we frowned on people trying to get around a ban by creating new accounts. Especially people who made a habit of it, if you know what I mean.
Also, begging is so tacky. It was cute at first when it looked like you were joking, but you're not letting it go. If I had $1500, I'd go see my own SO.
I'm in the same or worse situation that the Original poster but I guess the people here need their money for meet with their own SOs, no for give to others.
Most of us are saving for our own SOs, and have jobs to pay for it. Get one.
"We are all a little weird and life's a little weird, and when we find someone whose weirdness is compatible with ours, we join up with them and fall in mutual weirdness and call it love " ~ Theodore Seuss Geisel.
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