Is it odd NOT to fight?

[11MikesGirl21]

My SO and I don't have yelling fights either. I'm not saying we don't argue or fight, we do. We just are nice about it. It's more of a disagreement rather than a fight. We're very careful about how and what we say to eachother. Even when we're CD we tend to write each other long notes on Word and pass off a laptop and then pass it back and forth. We've discovered we communicate better that way. We're both very inward people when it comes to expressing feelings, so writing instead of saying how we're feeling works out better for us.

Wait, we have had our first fight. I went to Canada (My university is right on the boarder of NY and Canada) with some of my co-workers when we had a break between sessions of freshman coming in to make their schedules for the fall (kinda of a pre-orientation). My SO didn't know the people I was with, and I had just met them. He didn't want me to go but I did anyway. We stayed up texting (I was in NY at my University, he was back at my house in MA) until 4 in the morning. It got us nowhere. We both ended up going to bed if not angry frustrated with the other. The next day, we had both calmed down. He wrote me a long message about why he felt the way he felt, and I got it. I apologized. We moved on and I've made a point not to directly go against what his preferences are since. That's really the worst fight we've had, that jumps out in my memory.