How do you find your groove? How do you decided how much you need/want to talk to your SO? My boyfriend lives in another country(i live in texas, he lives in canada) and so we can't really talk on the phone too much because it costs on his end. So we use skype 
When he first moved there he didn't have any friends. We were able to talk on skype every day, he emailed me all the time. Before that we were living together so it felt strange not to talk every day. Now that he has started school I have started to feel neglected. There's never time for me anymore. At first we were talking every night and now we are down to three nights a wk. Sometimes we only talk for 10 minutes. And sometimes he get's busy and he loses track of time and forgets to talk to me at all...The other night we were being intimate on skype(sorry if thats tmi..) and he decided to look something up on google half way through?? Is it wrong of me to get upset over these things? I feel like we don't talk enough. He seems perfectly fine with it. We've been together 2 1/2 years and he doesn't even seem like he misses me. I want him to have friends, I want him to do good in school. But he is doing drugs and partying. If he has time to party all night and sleep in till 4 every day how is it that he doesn't have a little bit more time for me? He is almost 20 and legal drinking age there is 18 so I can understand that he wants to have fun but it is never in moderation. I have tried explaining this to him multiple times and he doesn't seem to understand. He listens and he apologizes but he won't change anything or do anything about it. I feel like i'm the only one working on this relationship. I mean, I'm in school too. I have friends. I'm just as busy and I always make time for him. Am I being stupid? Is it wrong of me to want more attention? How do you find a good, happy middle ground with your SO, especially if they don't like compromise? Is there anything the two of you don't agree on?
When he first moved there he didn't have any friends. We were able to talk on skype every day, he emailed me all the time. Before that we were living together so it felt strange not to talk every day. Now that he has started school I have started to feel neglected. There's never time for me anymore. At first we were talking every night and now we are down to three nights a wk. Sometimes we only talk for 10 minutes. And sometimes he get's busy and he loses track of time and forgets to talk to me at all...The other night we were being intimate on skype(sorry if thats tmi..) and he decided to look something up on google half way through?? Is it wrong of me to get upset over these things? I feel like we don't talk enough. He seems perfectly fine with it. We've been together 2 1/2 years and he doesn't even seem like he misses me. I want him to have friends, I want him to do good in school. But he is doing drugs and partying. If he has time to party all night and sleep in till 4 every day how is it that he doesn't have a little bit more time for me? He is almost 20 and legal drinking age there is 18 so I can understand that he wants to have fun but it is never in moderation. I have tried explaining this to him multiple times and he doesn't seem to understand. He listens and he apologizes but he won't change anything or do anything about it. I feel like i'm the only one working on this relationship. I mean, I'm in school too. I have friends. I'm just as busy and I always make time for him. Am I being stupid? Is it wrong of me to want more attention? How do you find a good, happy middle ground with your SO, especially if they don't like compromise? Is there anything the two of you don't agree on?
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