Our financial situations are totally different. My SO has a job that pays well, she's got money to do stuff and so on. Whereas I'm a student, I live on my small student allowance and the occasional help I sometimes get from my mom. Basically, I have very little money to use and I usually get what I need and not what I want. Getting a job at this point is not an option. ![Frown](https://members.lovingfromadistance.com/core/images/smilies/frown.png)
The plan is she's coming here in December. Obviously I'd like to split all the costs but I'd rather not stay in a hotel because they are a bit expensive. Whereas that's what she'd like to do, but I'm honestly not sure I can afford that because I know we are going to be eating out and doing things together. I just don't know how to tell her that I don't have that much money because it's a bit of an awkward subject for me. And I definitely wouldn't like her to pay the whole hotel bill or something.
How do you guys usually talk about money..?
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The plan is she's coming here in December. Obviously I'd like to split all the costs but I'd rather not stay in a hotel because they are a bit expensive. Whereas that's what she'd like to do, but I'm honestly not sure I can afford that because I know we are going to be eating out and doing things together. I just don't know how to tell her that I don't have that much money because it's a bit of an awkward subject for me. And I definitely wouldn't like her to pay the whole hotel bill or something.
How do you guys usually talk about money..?
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