This happens quite a lot, but I need an outside opinion about this. My girlfriend and I were texting earlier today and she told me that she had to do a few things then when she got home she was going to take a nap. Completely fine, here's the problem: every time she tells me that she's going to do something, she always says that she'll text me when she gets done or when she wakes up from her nap. Every single time it never fails that she doesn't text me until I tell her good night or good morning the next day. Should I bring this up to her or just let it go? I know people have a tendency to forget every now and then, but this is almost every damn time.
And not only that, but when I ask her to do something for me (nothing hard or difficult or even demanding, like say send me a picture of her new hair color) she never does it. She says that she will do it when she has time, yet after asking about it very casually throughout the whole, say, 20-30 minutes we text each other, she never does it when she get's near a computer. Like I said before, people have a tendency to forget, but this I'm not sure of. I even sent her a picture of me AND a rose I picked for her, PLUS not only that, but sent her a list of songs I listen to because I had asked her if she wouldn't mind doing the same for me when we were talking about music the other day. I know she is busy with college and homework and *coughcoughhertimeofthemonthcoughcough*, but it seems like she could take no more than 5 minutes to send me one or two pictures. Maybe I'm just raging right now because it's getting late and I need to vent, but I just don't understand it. LFAD is the only community I can really talk to because I know someone has gone through this. Thanks.
And not only that, but when I ask her to do something for me (nothing hard or difficult or even demanding, like say send me a picture of her new hair color) she never does it. She says that she will do it when she has time, yet after asking about it very casually throughout the whole, say, 20-30 minutes we text each other, she never does it when she get's near a computer. Like I said before, people have a tendency to forget, but this I'm not sure of. I even sent her a picture of me AND a rose I picked for her, PLUS not only that, but sent her a list of songs I listen to because I had asked her if she wouldn't mind doing the same for me when we were talking about music the other day. I know she is busy with college and homework and *coughcoughhertimeofthemonthcoughcough*, but it seems like she could take no more than 5 minutes to send me one or two pictures. Maybe I'm just raging right now because it's getting late and I need to vent, but I just don't understand it. LFAD is the only community I can really talk to because I know someone has gone through this. Thanks.
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