Okay, this has been driving me insane for months.
My SO and I both became very busy, and it has now become very hard to create time for each other.
And you know what, things are not working out at all.
We used to be able to talk whenever we wanted, since we could afford to spend most of our time on Facebook.
Now, both of us are rarely on Facebook at the same time.
I want to make appointments with her, so I can set myself a schedule to maintain a perfect balance between my SO and my own life.
However, her schedule is unreliable and random because she has no idea when she'll get home.
Or she's supposed to leave somewhere really soon, but her mom is too glued to the computer to budge, and she could say "let's go" at any second, so she doesn't want any new convos while she's waiting.
Or she has random obligations.
Or she gets sick very easily, and her illness and side-effects of her medicines randomly prevent her from talking to me.
Her available time is SO inconsistent, and it clashes with MY free time.
Therefore, she had to cancel a LOT of appointments that I made. It's frustrating because:
- it cost me time to hang out with other friends/do other stuff
- I can't set up a schedule since her schedule is SO unreliable and random. It seems as though I have to keep my eyes glued on Facebook 24/7 just to catch her. It's not safe to make other plans of my own either. I can't live my own life.
- I can only contact her via Facebook at college, which is where I spend most of my time
- If this was during our reunion, I'd be so pissed for wasting our precious time.
- one time, she even told me not to make appointments
I'm sorry if I'm not making any sense. I'm sick right now. But yeah, please help us before I cause another argument with her.
My SO and I both became very busy, and it has now become very hard to create time for each other.
And you know what, things are not working out at all.
We used to be able to talk whenever we wanted, since we could afford to spend most of our time on Facebook.
Now, both of us are rarely on Facebook at the same time.
I want to make appointments with her, so I can set myself a schedule to maintain a perfect balance between my SO and my own life.
However, her schedule is unreliable and random because she has no idea when she'll get home.
Or she's supposed to leave somewhere really soon, but her mom is too glued to the computer to budge, and she could say "let's go" at any second, so she doesn't want any new convos while she's waiting.
Or she has random obligations.
Or she gets sick very easily, and her illness and side-effects of her medicines randomly prevent her from talking to me.
Her available time is SO inconsistent, and it clashes with MY free time.
Therefore, she had to cancel a LOT of appointments that I made. It's frustrating because:
- it cost me time to hang out with other friends/do other stuff
- I can't set up a schedule since her schedule is SO unreliable and random. It seems as though I have to keep my eyes glued on Facebook 24/7 just to catch her. It's not safe to make other plans of my own either. I can't live my own life.
- I can only contact her via Facebook at college, which is where I spend most of my time
- If this was during our reunion, I'd be so pissed for wasting our precious time.
- one time, she even told me not to make appointments
I'm sorry if I'm not making any sense. I'm sick right now. But yeah, please help us before I cause another argument with her.
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