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    Should I ask him?

    Ok Im sorry I said I would wouldnt post anymore problems in the forum but I need some opinions.

    OK so me and my ex-SO have been alright lately. We talk but not every day and sometimes when we talk its just the hru, how was ur day ect ect. But apart from that we have been pretty good. We are pretty much how I am with any of my other friends. So my question. Next weekend my table tennis club are having their annual presentations and I dont want to go alone. Basically because in our club your a junior or and adult and being 18 im sorta on the edge of both groups lol and although I'm friends with alot of people there when we are altogether I'm more on the edge of the group. Anyway I was thinking of asking if he wanted to come with me.

    Now I don't know whether thats appropriate or inappropriate or whether it crosses a boundary. I never got a chance to ask him when we broke up because I was doing alot of crying. So should I take the chance and ask or is it not appropriate?
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    #2
    As great as it would be to ask him, I think it would be a bit awkward and dont think it would be the best of ideas.
    Got together Jan 3, 2011~ Closed the Distance March 23, 2012~ Living Together Since June 19 2012~ Future TBD......

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      #3
      I would agree. I think that if you have to ask, it's too soon.
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        #4
        I think you only live once, and the worst that can happen is a rejection. Go for it. Tell him you just want to go as mates, of course.
        Happily married to the little Canadian boy I never thought I'd meet in person

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          #5
          I agree with Zephii, you only live once and the worst that could happen is you get a no. Find another guy to go with. OR if it isn't too formal maybe invite another friend so that it is a trio and it isn't as awkward and date-like.
          .We've Closed the Distance.
          no matter where i am, no matter where you are
          i'll be there when it's over baby - cause i was there from the start
          no matter if i'm near - dont matter if you're far
          all you do is pick the phone up baby & i'll be there when you call

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            #6
            Its very informal its like a social night with presentations of the years awards. I never thought of getting a few friends together, might be the way to go. Thanks guys

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              #7
              So I did end up asking him and he said he didnt think it would be appropriate. Not a no though. Oh well you never know till u ask.

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